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I agree date who you please |
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I agree with kenzie13 |
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Im for it becuase people can love who they want and they shouldnt have to love a different gender if
the same makes them happy and loved. |
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Yes.
What else would they be.
Attracted to Guinea pigs?? |
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YES!!!! GO GAY PEOPLE!!! :) (lol! I'm not gay but they should be able to love one another!)
RAINBOWS!! ((( |
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True. No gay gene has been found.
I would say there is a level of conditioning from the environment, a perception the person has
received, whether morality plays into it or not etc. There are various factors.
Me on the other hand. I am straight. I cannot explain.
Why- because it was natural for me to like girls.
But this is a dead argument since gays see it natural to like same sex. But normal for humans is
much different from humans contaminated by sin. And that is what we are. Contaminated fighting for
what we believe, and we believe all different things. And self talk is important.
It is complicated and not what anyone wants to hear. But there is a degree of choice. Sometimes
people tease gays and convince them they are gay. This happens and is way sad. I hate when people
tease people being gay or into being gay. And it depends how they were brought up. Some maybe gave
it a chance and were like, "hey I like this". By accidentally falling into it, but who hasn't
accidentally sinned?
It doesn't matter. Relationships are never black and white. Sigh. So I have a compartment that is
original, I would say that I am still straight but I have incapacities in many other areas. |
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My teacher brought up this subject today:
"If you brought into this world by gays, what would you think, do, and what would you think the
outcome would be?"
I personally believe that when people say that at the "so called" begining, God created man and
women so that they could be together and created other people.
When people say that gays/lebsians shouldn't act upon their choice of being homosexual, I think
that's wrong, because when you have a feeling...it's obviously not a choice it's just there.
When homosexuals choose to have children or adopt children, maybe they should consult them, I don't
know. But if I were someone with gay parents...I wouldn't mind what-so-ever, I would just want
parents to love and care for me! |
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Society is simply wrong to impose it's views on all. If people took an honest look at themselves
they would see that they do not conform to society in some way. We are all different in some way so
we should not degrade others for being different. |
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Gay men and lesbians are those few people in our society who are born with a different sexual
orientation and they do not react in the way as other people do. Though they are very normal in
their each and every activity but they just differ from us in one single way and that is they choose
to have a romantic association with the person of their same gender. They can not be blamed for such
a reason because science has proved that it is a hormonal matter which makes them different from
others in sexual orientation and they can not help it anyway. Gay men get attracted and fall in love
with men of their type and the same happens with Lesbian women who choose their romantic partners
who are women like them and they live happily with each other. |
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I believe that homosexuals chose to have those feelings. Ask me why. |
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Well yes and no.
They choose to love same -sex partners for the same reasons that heterosexual people do , because
they are attracted to them and doing what nature has meant them to do, select a mate.
We do what our bodies and minds tell us to do and sometimes we make very considered and structured
choices, at other times, emotions get in the way and we are attracted to people who turn out to be
wrong for us. No difference between homo or heterosexual people here.
I don't think anyone would benefit from homosexual people choosing heterosexual partners, unless
this is as a friend because it would lead to unhappiness and conforming for the sake of it. Many
families have been split and made very unhappy by people pretending to be something they aren't for
the sake of conformity.
Why shouldn't gay people choose to romantically love same gender partners? That's what nature
designed them to do and whether other people approve or not is irrelevant to how they are.
We need to show understanding and tolerance here and work towards acceptance of differences in
sexual orientation.
Many young people experiment with their sexuality and eventually find what is right for them.
Nothing must be more sad in a relationship than to pretend you are something or somebody you're not
just to satisfy the stereotypes in society. Better to choose a partner of the same sex than many
people to be hurt at sometime in the future when perhaps children are involved and this opens up
many more issues. |
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You dont choose who you fall in love with and also not all tribes reject homosexuality in Sparta it
was encouraged |
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That's so BS. Some men and women just like other men and women. They don't choose to be gay. They
aren't like "well hey I
'm bored with women I like men now" It doesn't happen like that. |
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Sexual orientation is not a choice. |
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No i have a gay friend and he's always liked buys so......... |
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Why would anyone choose to be something which would include getting bashed and discriminated
against. |
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I think this is wrong, in that you don't have to want to live with some one, let alone have sex with
them to adore the person. |
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There was a study fairly recently (saw it on TV you'd have to look it up if you want to know more)
tha suggested homosexuality in men could be caused by a gene that in a woman would make them extra
attracted to men (good evolutionary sense).
A person has their genes from the word go. They are (currently) immutable and uncontrollable,
therefore, one cannot choose such an outcome. |
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I'm against this the same gender should not love each other i t is disgusting! |
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Who would decide to be gay if they had a choice? Not gay bashing here, but honestly be realistic.
"ya know I would really like to be discriminated against in every aspect of life . Sounds like fun!"
I don't think all of the gays and lesbians are rebels against society. |
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You can't choose your sexual orientation, although you can be aware of it. |
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It in my opinion is not a choice, they have a hormone imbalance, and something missing in their
brain, from the "norm" however people shouting "equal rights" "I'm out and proud" i don't give a dam
who is what, but end of the day, it is a mental disorder. |
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Why would someone choose to be discriminated against, hated, even disowned from their own parents?
No one would. But homosexuals have no choice. It's a sad, sad world sometimes. |
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When someone is born, they don't choose what gender appeals to them. Like me, I'm heterosexual, but
when I was born I didn't get some sort of ballot along with my birth certificate saying "what will
your sexual orientation be when you get older" and I didn't mark the metaphorical box that said
"Heterosexual". I think its just that a person is attracted to what they are simply attracted to. |
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I think that this is worded poorly, so my answer could go in either box, but I'm going to put it in
this one since the wording you used is similar to a lot of anti-gay arguments I've heard.
You don't choose who you're attracted to, or even who you fall in love with. (Me and pretty much all
of my friends either can or know people who can attest to this, and give examples of people falling
in love with people they REALLY don't want to fall in love with, at least not consciously)
Who you're attracted to is a matter of genes combined a bit with social. Which gender depends on
genes and social prejudices, just as preferences of race, hair color, eye color, weight
distribution, etc. Depends partially on genes (well, predispositions towards a certain look do),
social pressures/norms, and environmental factors.
So no, you don't choose whether to be attracted to someone your own gender, and in many cases you
don't choose whether or not to fall in love with someone. |
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It's not really a choice, you can't really choose who you're falling in love with. Okay, some,
because of various reasons, incidents, experiences choose to date only people of the same gender,
which of course raises the opportunity to fall in love with one of them. In some cases it is as
simple that they do not feel a single ounce of attraction towards the opposite gender. But yeah, in
the end, really not a choice. |
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I find anyone who thinks it is a choice should have their brain seriously tested. For some I'm sure
it is a choice - oh wait - these people are called bisexuals. For those who don't have a choice they
are straight, gay, or a-sexual.
Gay gene been proved -no
Chemical attraction been proved - yes.
Naturally i prefer my neon to react with copper. Shame it's not possible. |
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NO! Homosexuals, if given the choice, i think, would be strait. What person would want to make life
harder on themselves? You don't choose who you find attractive. |
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In all honesty, I don't know what box to put this in, but I think that homosexuals have the right to
be together in any way they want to be together. What 2 people do in the privacies of their bedroom
is their buisiness not mine. I just hate it when people bring religion into this. That is just
another way to exploit people's ignorance. The religious people, you were rasied to believe that gay
marriage is wrong. I was raised Apostolic and those are some hard core christians. My thing is, that
people say that marriage is only sacred when it is between a man and a woman. So in other words
marriage is meant for 2 people in love, and that means that 2 men or 2 women cant get married
because they have the same genitals??? There are heterosexual couples that get married everyday, but
I guarantee you that at least a good 45-50% of the time it is not for love. People look down on
homosexulity, and to be honest, they are the bigger people because they actually have the guts to
come out to this judgemental society. |
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I didn't know which to put this in, but in thinking more along the lines of the author, I figure it
should go here.
First off, I have always, but more so now, reading all the different opinions on this website about
gays and lesbians.... Have found it funny that the only basis people go on when they don't accept
homosexuals is the basis from the Bible. No where in the history of the world, outside of the
Bible, does it say that homosexuality is wrong. Society that has accepted the Bible as 'the word'
has made it that way. Homosexuality is only frowned upon by the people who are afraid of it; and by
people who interpret the Bible to make it wrong. The only basis in the world that people have
hatred for the gays and lesbians is on the Bible!
I think that people are born who they are. I also don't believe that people are born to love one
certain type of person... We are only born to Love and carry on a life with another person,
regardless of the race or gender.
If a person is born to love another person, and that person happens to be the same sex of them, then
no, they didn't choose that. They were born that way. And as much as the Bible thumping hypocrits
might want to think, the gays were born that way.
I think the only choice they have is to act upon it or to hide it. It takes a gay person more
strength and courage to come out and stand up for who they are than any other person. It doesn't
matter if you agree with the gay or lesbian lifestyle, because there are many things that each of
you do that other people don't agree with... Including God.
I wish just once that someone could come up with a better reason to frown upon the gay and lesbians
aside from the Bible. And yes, I do believe in God, have a strong relationship with God, but think
many Bible thumpers are extreme bigots- a price they will pay for when they pass on- because God
doesn't like hate! |
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People don't choose who they are attracted to. I like women, even though I'm in a serious
relationship with a man for the first time. I still can't help looking at women, it's just natural
to me! |
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Yup i agree |
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