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Gay-Marriage Is A Crucial Debate
If you decide gay is a credible concept, then it will follow to reason that they can marry, and if they can marry then it becomes a mainstream-acceptableness. You will follow the concepts, and connect the dots = that is where it will lead, once you start it.
 Scorpion  27 Aug 2008 05:30
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In forandagainst, it is currently third after God's existence and abortion of life.
 
 Stranger  07 Oct 2008 18:08
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Since the fifth of December 2005 British Homosexuals and Lesbians can enter into a civil partnership.

This for the first time puts each in the partnership, on the same legal footing as a srtaight couple.
Most Gay men don't want to be married let alone have kids.
Lesbians might feel different, as they may already be mothers or might be broody.
Marriage comes into question or doubt from a religious standpoint.
Christians can't agree on contraception let alone new wedding vows, where Vicars are to ask, do you Joseph take Bret.

It can only further divide an already divided Church.
 
 keepmindok  27 Aug 2008 11:33
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 What about gay people who are not religious. Why would they care what the church thinks.

Why would Lesbians be more likely to already be mums than Gay men to already have be dads?

The law is for the Gay men who want be married not for those who don't.

Surely a vicar could handle that one. Plenty of vicars are gay themselves.

It an only divide an already divided church? It is already divided as you say, being homosexual is not new so is one of these divisive factors already. This affects nothing that wouldn't have to change because of societal change in general.
by  Mosschops
 27 Aug 2008 11:44
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Gays and Lesbians should be allowed to marry. They are just as entitled to be miserable as anyone else! LOL
 
 cster  27 Aug 2008 20:28
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In most cases I see the issue as a way the religiously empowered want to dictate the lives of others using their own personal perspective of how someone’s life should be lived according to their belief system (all while not realizing that their belief system could mean little to nothing to someone not within it). As I’ve stated before, I have never, not once, been given an objective reason why homosexuality is “wrong”, or potentially dangerous, in any sense.
 
 Hizashi  27 Aug 2008 20:00
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 How's this for objective? Do you understand what an inner child is? It's the sub conscious part of your brain that's still a child, because your brain doesn't know what time is. Now is it in any way ok or healthy for any person (religious or not) to sodomize a child. If you sodomize anyone can it ever have a positive effect? Or does just making a conscious decision make anything ok, with ones own subconscious? In matters of the conscious or subconscious, who wins out ? NOT THE CONSCIOUS.
by  paladen
 27 Aug 2008 20:16
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It is not an important debate. It is a straight forward decision to legalise gay marriages and not really discuss the topic any longer. If two people want to commit to a life together and celebrate it by getting married then I am all for it. The fact that they are gay or lesbian doesn't change that one bit.

Do I understand the second part of your statement correctly? Are you saying that by being for the right of homosexual couples to marry I will start batting for the other team?
 
 Mosschops  27 Aug 2008 10:30
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 actually, that is not what I said.
I said, "IF"......................."IF".
;-)
by  Scorpion
 27 Aug 2008 23:02
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Everyone should have equal rights and whom they love and want to spend the rest of their lives with should not be up for debate. The only difference between a hetrosexual relationship and homosexual one is the sex part. We work, pay tax, have arguments, go on holiday together, why should marriage be any different. We love just the same as everyone else and this should not be up for debate and certainly not a crucial one, there are far more important things that people should be arguing over.
 
 kddan  27 Aug 2008 09:03
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 thank you for your input, kddan.

debate has several purposes. one is education.
how is one "educated"?
several ways, actually. one among them is debate.

I have learned alot in this site. so have others.
by  Scorpion
 27 Aug 2008 23:04
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