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Everybody Should Try Lesbian Or Gay Relationship
Everyone should at least try it once and explore its potential with somebody of their own gender.
 espnsports  17 Apr 2008 22:45
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I am a bisexual and proud of it and i always have been. What i am is not gross, it just means there is an wider variety to choose from,and a bigger chance to find someone to be with for the rest of your life. Just because someone dates someone else of the same sex ,does not mean that I am,or other people are gross.If you have a problem with that,...THEN GROW THE HELL UP AND GET OVER YOURSELVES NOT EVERBODY IS THE SAME!!!!!!I know that other people have their opinions and everthing,but still don't be judging lesbians or gays,as one person,because just like straight people,ALOT OF THEM ARE GROSS TOO,YOU KNOW!
 
 Dancer91  13 Aug 2008 00:06
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 you pitch AND hit all at one and the same time?!

WOW.
you would make one helluva baseball team ;-)
by  LyinInWait
 20 Oct 2008 21:55
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This has really opened my eyes. I've never realized the context in which i have accepted my bisexuality. I've gone to lots of raves and therein i would always have opportunities to kiss, hold, rub, love, touch everybody. It truly never mattered. My eyes were closed half the time, if you will.
But the idea that breaking that sexual ice as a means of better understanding life through the eyes of someone that feels that way is pretty intensely progressive. You can't just go up to someone you aren't attracted to and start a conversation aiming for a relationship.
I've really never understood why i have always accepted people indiscriminately but still remain so unhappy. The thing is i'm not unhappy i just miss the good times i've had and the people i've met. However, now i do walk down the street with a sense of androgynous and ever-present respect for people, which i think is important. I don't just look at guys, or stare at girls. I don't even wait or expect a relationship to fall into my lap.
So the idea that i would just up and start one for the sake of experience does seem like a tawdry way of looking at romance. But the person i decide on, or who decides on me will be greeted with so much appreciation i can't even stand to think about it. I love love.
 
 characters  09 May 2008 03:32
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Your sexuality is not a choice. It's something you feel, not something you decide. I'm straight. I have no sexual attraction to any other male. I do not look at a male and think "I gotta get me some of that!" Not that there is anything wrong with that. If you're gay, you're gay. If you're straight, you're straight. That's like saying everyone should try to be Hispanic for a day. Or everyone should try to be a bird for a day. It's not a decision. People who are just "testing" gay probably aren't gay. They might be. They might be Bi-sexual. But you don't like girls for your entire life and then say "Hey, I'm gonna like boys today!" or vice-verse. It doesn't works like that. Most homophobes claim it's a choice. If you're gay and you think its a choice, you're lying to yourself
 
 shadow159  12 May 2009 04:48
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Now, I strongly disagree with that statement. I am not homophobic, but everyone has their own tastes.
 
 SlyOne  29 Oct 2008 17:42
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Ha! You know I'm all for gay and lesbian rights but to say everyone needs to try it is equivalently offensive to a straight person saying every gay should try heterosexual sex at least once. You'd be offended by that suggestion.
 
 Grenache  20 Oct 2008 21:52
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 i think gay is silly, but its because i am not BENT THAT DIRECTION.
it is all in the i of the beholder.
by  LyinInWait
 20 Oct 2008 21:54
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No. If you're that desperate jusck fvck yourself and be done with it.
It is what it is. Just learn to like it i guess. That's life.
 
 LyinInWait  20 Oct 2008 21:46
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I'm gay and have to say it is not for everyone. The majority of people are quite happy how they are and will never have homosexual feelings. That is the way the world works plus people can't choose their sexual orientation so they also can't change it. Therefore not everyone should try a gay relationship.
 
 kddan  23 Aug 2008 12:57
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Hmm well OK, I think I'll try the lesbian sex, please
 
 finsch  05 Aug 2008 01:21
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 LOL!!! You're very funny.
by  bookworm3
 22 Nov 2008 02:38
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I'm sorry. But honey, that's just not for everyone. I personally think it is gross, and un-holy. But some don't feel that way. I don't tell people what to do, but in return i don't think its right for someone to tell the world what they should or shouldn't do. I think gay and lesbian relationships are in part caused by a chemical in-balance of the individual, having more of either feminine or masculine hormones, which is why they are attracted to the same sex. And because of a feeling of rejection from the opposite sex.
 
 erinargues  05 Aug 2008 01:07
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I love this everybody. What is wrong with being yourself? I think I am at home with myself. Quite happy with my chosen path. And any gays who would feel more comfortable being straight have my blessing.
I have never subscribed to "never know until you've tried it" theory, and "everything in moderation".
You don't need to order a giant grasshopper and scorpion salad to know you couldn't eat it.
 
 keepmindok  31 Jul 2008 21:17
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You should do what you feel is right for you. End of discussion. You should although allow other to do what they feel is right for them.
 
 boy2girl31  28 Jul 2008 08:36
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If people want to, they will. It's not something you "should" or "should not" do.
 
 Snipex  23 Jul 2008 21:58
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No thanks. Sounds yucky to me.
To each is or her own orientation.
Nobody is going to change my likes and dislikes.
I like what men have: Its way cool! :-)
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 18:56
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I've never tired a same sex relationship i know I'm heterosexual its never interested me. Sometime you known what you want without trying other things.
 
 maugatar  01 Jul 2008 23:11
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If your not attracted to someone it doesn't make sense to give it a whirl, and even if you are attracted to them, it probably still doesn't make much sense. People should date who they want, and if they don't want to date people of the same gender, then that's just as good as if they did.
 
 nefarious  13 Jun 2008 16:59
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'Can't think of a single reason why I should or why I should want to! Personally I think that some of you kids bring this on. Some are born that way, I do agree, but some is attitude and influence purely nothing more.
 
 momof3  31 May 2008 22:27
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That would be wrong.
 
 Stranger  27 May 2008 23:07
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I don't think so. If i were asked to do some of the things that heteros do i think i would vomit, or laugh a lot. Then there's the little matter of...well i had better stop. Anyway, what you people do in the privacy of your home is your business.
 
 innomen  16 May 2008 00:49
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Why should we?! What benefit is it to us?! This is a perfect example of how gay people push their lifestyle on straight people. If we are straight, then why is it you feel the need to tell straight people everyone should try the gay life?! How about this?, every gay person should try being straight for a while.

I'd be damned if another girl puts her hands on me!! I'll have to unleash some serious anger all over her!! It may require a trip to the hospital!!
 
 SpicyGirl  07 May 2008 06:18
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 do you think that experiencing it would get that level of angst out of your system?
by  characters
 09 May 2008 03:25
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Obviously the person that made this up is gay or Lesbian and no everybody shouldn't its just like making out with your brothers or sisters
 
 racerboy  22 Apr 2008 18:08
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 A gay or lesbian would never choose the name ESPNSPORTS
by  innomen
 16 May 2008 00:46
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Certainly not! If a person is not attracted to someone of the same sex then there is absolutely no point in them experimenting with that type of relationship.
 
 louise23  19 Apr 2008 21:43
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Why would someone who isn't attracted to someone of the same sex want to have a relationship with them? By the same token, why should someone who is attracted to the same sex be required to have a relationship with someone they're not attracted to?

Just leave people alone and let them form whatever relationships they wish.
 
 Cephus  18 Apr 2008 03:04
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Lesbian and Gay relationship is worst relationship one can ever have. It has great risk of health. Anal Cancer, Viral Hepatitis B & C etc are found with extra ordinary frequency among male homosexual practitioners. Multiple studies have identified high rates of psychiatric illness, including depression, drug abuse and suicide attempts among self professed gays & lesbians.
 
 Faiza  18 Apr 2008 00:12
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 The depression,suicide, and drug abuse is because of homophobes making the lives of homosexuals and bisexuals hell on earth. Anal cancer also happens among heterosexuals. STDs are transmitted more frequently, but that's because of several reasons, including lack of schools educating kids about how to have safe sex between two people of the same gender, and lack of knowledge of the transference of STDs. Also, less people use protection in samesex relationships because there's no risk of getting pregnant. STDs are the type of thing where you assume it'll never happen to you. In heterosexual sex it's fairly certain that the girl will get pregnant if she doesn't use protection, so it's more common for protection to be used when pregnancy's a risk.

Any other arguments?
by  FoxFire
 16 May 2008 00:43
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All women should experiment with lesbian sex. Now to convince my wife.
 
 StBalders  17 Apr 2008 23:18
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 And be ready to duck!
by  Jahwobble
 19 Apr 2008 14:25
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No i am not gonna date someone with the same gender as me
 
 crossout  17 Apr 2008 23:15
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 Don't be homophobic
by  espnsports
 18 Apr 2008 19:14
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