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""addiction" is used to describe a recurring compulsion by an individual to engage in some specific activity, despite harmful consequences to the individual's health, mental state or social life..." Come, on now. Admit it. You're addicted. I don't know to what. Maybe the standard stuff: Alcohol, drugs, sex, religion, TV. Maybe it's something the doctor gave you. Maybe something subtler, like fishing or bowling or collecting beanie babies. Or work, or the Internet, or your lover? I don't know which, but you do. You know... The ones you can't live without?
 OzzieMan  03 Jun 2008 07:03
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Yes, yes... No argument here
 
 SlyOne  18 Nov 2008 17:28
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I very reluctantly admit the veracity of your observation:

Everyone has something or someone they seem to hang onto or cannot live without.

Even sex or food normal as these are, can be taken to unattractive new levels which you label as "addiction".

I would call it being out of balance.

All things have a balance, where what was the addiction becomes wholesome.

Too much vitamin D will calcify your soft internal organs.
Too little vitamin D your bones will snap where you stand.

It is just an example of the necessity of Balance.
Bringing balance into the force ;-) to quote Quygon Gin ;-)
 
 Scorpion  25 Jul 2008 03:04
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Everyone has some sort of addiction I agree. A lot may smoke, drink or do drugs. Others gamble, shop or use prostitutes. My mum may not do any of the above but take away her hourly cup of tea and she would be frothing at the mouth searching the bins trying to find an old tea bag to suck on.
 
 StBalders  04 Jun 2008 14:32
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I'm addicted to breathing too. And food and water. And pissing and pooping and masturbating.
 
 JohnShier  03 Jun 2008 19:39
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 That will upset people...
by  martlamb
 03 Jun 2008 19:44
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I'm addicted to breathing. Every time I try to stop I go into withdrawals.
 
 moreno  03 Jun 2008 15:03
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 Have you tried methadone instead?
by  OzzieMan
 03 Jun 2008 18:48
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Well, everyone I know is addicted to something... Mainly being in a social situation and being connected. (my cousin and her friends have it super bad. The most anti-social of them can't stand being alone and awake and without some connection to the rest of the world for more than an hour, and would flip if they ever had their ability to communicate with other humans taken away for that time)

And tell me, how many of your AREN'T addicted to caffeine? Me and 95% of people I know can't wake up without it...

Ya, social situations and caffeine are the two most common things I've noticed people being addicted to and denying they're addicted to them...

You can also have the opposite of the social addition: The alone time addiction. You're not alone, you explode!

And I agree with Misery. People on this site are addicted to debating. :P
 
 FoxFire  03 Jun 2008 10:58
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 thanks a lot foxfire....now I gotta get up and make a cup of coffee.
by  justsumguy
 02 Aug 2008 14:59
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I agree to the fullest...For a proven example EVERYONE who has an account on here(for and against) is in some way, shape or form addicted- whether the cause being to strike conversations, arguments or just plain curiosity...Just the constant logging in to see this site is an addiction :O) ...fun lil tid bit of a debate...
 
 Misery08  03 Jun 2008 07:27
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 well, no one said addictions are not pleasureful LOL ;-)
by  Scorpion
 02 Aug 2008 09:27
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I am a human..... I am not an addict..... I may participate in addictive behavior, but I am still a human, not an addict. The moment a person identifies him or herself as "I am an addict" they can never be free of it. The have told their subconscious, that's who they are, and it has no choice but to act that way forever. This is one of the problems I have with 12 step programs ( inn....I know they help many people) But it puts them in forever bondage to the addiction, when I work with people with addiction, I'm not done til they are completely free, never to struggle with it again. Like myself, smoked 2 packs a day, chewed tobacco and had snuff in my lip all at the same time, while drinking 10 cups of coffee a day. I have no problem are desire to do that ever again, and I have gone through the tests of fire since (many deaths and life tragedies)
 
 stever  03 Jun 2008 19:05
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 Steve, first of all...........................

addicts are human. To de-humanize them is a pretty terrible thing to do.

Second, addiction has no cure for almost everyone. You are not an addict so you do not know this, not truly. Therefore there is never a time when they are free of it.

I have yet to meet an alcoholic who has been able to become a social drinker. I have yet to meet a herion addict who has been able to go to casual use of heroin (if there is such a thing).

Lastly, 12 Step programs may seem like you are in bondage, but it is the only true freedom they will ever find. Freedom from bondage is a common theme in 12 step meetings. It is hard for you to understand because you do not truly know addiction.
by  innomen
 03 Jun 2008 19:15
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I think that's a soft form of addiction as a definition. With addiction it is a combination of compulsion and obsession, and although dependence is possible for anyone, an addictive personality is a little different. An addictive personality can result in an otherwise rational person acting irrationally in their particular need. There is a difference between a desire and want, to an actual need. For the addict the substance or whatever goes from that intense desire to a need. One of the reasons why 12 step programs work so well is that only those in that addiction can really understand the mindset of an addict.

Also a true addiction has a component of withdrawal.
 
 innomen  03 Jun 2008 10:30
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 Oh, come now. Keep a bible thumper away from church and they go into withdrawal. I think you're differentiating between physical addiction and psychological addiction (i.e. heroin/gambling).
by  OzzieMan
 03 Jun 2008 17:51
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