Do whatever pleases your family and makes them happy. Actually, giving desert after dinner is not a
good idea. It tells people that deserts area reward. So, when a kid does something good, he or she
expects candy, cookies or ice cream as a "thank you". No wonder American kids are fat. Do what the
Japanese do. Serve desert first and then have the meal. It is refreshing and makes the food taste
better.
You assume that they can still eat the whole meal after they eat dessert first. Now they "could" eat
the whole meal but your risking that they will. Its like the whole black hole generator thing. It
could have destroyed us all. It didnt. But it could have and we risked our entire world on the turn
of a switch.
I like the idea of having it last because then you might not even be in the mood for dessert when
the time comes around. Lets be honest the worlds gaining some pounds.
A person should be patient also. Nothing wrong with waiting until your done. Why break
tradition?
Also I'm a hypocrite because I have dessert before and after my meal. Damn you chocolaty chip
goodness!