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Don't Ask Don't Tell Should Apply To Everyone.
I keep hearing about the don't ask don't tell policy in the military. I was just thinking if gay people can not say they are gay or talk about their boyfriend or girlfriend then straight people should not be allowed to say they are straight and talk about their husband or wife.
 Lacey  10 Jun 2009 10:26
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I totally agree. Also, after thinking about this for a few minutes, I realized that talking about any relationship in any workplace is actually not a great idea. I have worked for companies that had policies right in the employee handbook stating that employees were to refrain from personal conversation. I do think that is carrying it a bit far, but the truth is, in the workplace (I only know about the civilian workplace), what one confides in a coworker can become distorted, repeated to people who were not intended to hear the information and is, in general, not great for productivity. Being friendly with coworkers is a good thing, but unless one is close friends with a coworker and knows them very well, there are many people out there who love to start office gossip and cause trouble.

Regardless, if one does wish to discuss their personal life, it should not matter to anyone what their sexual orientation is. It is a disturbing thought that a group of society has to be guarded about their personal life or risk their job. I really have no idea about what the military protocol is for this, but I think that in the civilian population that would be considered discrimination. It seems to me that society isn't happy unless there is a group of people that they can discriminate against. Hopefully, as the younger generation reaches adulthood, we will see more tolerance.
 
 my2cents2u  15 Jun 2009 15:36
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Wow, what a brilliant idea. I agree. Also, preventing only gays from talking about their relationships tells you who is gay, simply by doing a little subtractive deduction..
 
 tinseldove  11 Jun 2009 03:28
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Yes I agree with muin13, I do not like the way the policy treats gay people. I have heard some terrible stories about people who have been on the recieving end of that policy out of America. The policy should be toned down and then applied to everyone, if one group is not allowed to talk about their partners then it should apply to everyone. I don't think however anyone should be dishourably discharged for who they are or whom they are with. American should take a lesson from the rest of the western world and just scrap the whole policy in my opinion.
 
 kddan  10 Jun 2009 14:35
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I'm going to assume that this is an American policy and move on to say your country has some really odd laws and porotocol, however I agree whole heartedly, the policy should either be removed from affect of be widened to cover all sexual prefernces: Gay, lesbian, Bisexual, straight and transgender. Otherwise it would be like saying talk about your sweethearts as long as they are not black. Its totally insane.
 
 muin13  10 Jun 2009 14:16
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Ha, actually I think that's a pretty reasonable argument. Naturally people won't want to comply with it, they'll want to talk about it, which is exactly why it shouldn't be forbidden for gays to talk about it in the military too due to threat of persecution or discharge. Also frankly I always wondered why don't ask don't tell wasn't considered a violation of the rights to freedom of expression.
 
 Grenache  10 Jun 2009 10:55
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