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Civil Unions Promote An Unfair And Unequal Society.
Firstly only gay people can get this kind of union, the option isn't open to straights. They are a completely different institution to marriage. I don't know about America so much now but I know they didn't contain all the rights that could be afforded in heterosexual marriage. And "will you union with me" doesn't have the same ring as "will you marry me." (sure you could still say marry if you're getting a union but you get the point).
 kddan  25 May 2009 18:08
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If civil unions are only extended to the homosexual community and heterosexuals are the only ones that can have their relationship viewed as a marriage, I agree with your debate. It seems that they laws differ in the UK. I would have posted on the other side, assuming both heterosexual and homosexual couples have the same rights, but your comment on the other side made me vote on this side. I was not aware that the laws vary in other countries. I think the laws vary from state to state though and I don't think that is being sensitive to the rights of all citizens in the US. Whether one is gay or straight should have no bearing over what their rights are, especially given that that what is legal in one state might not be legal in another state.
 
 my2cents2u  26 May 2009 23:16
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I'm agreeing with the spirit of your post, mainly that homosexuals should have the same rights and legality as heterosexuals in their unions. But I also agree with the comment from finsch that perhaps "marriage" as religions define it shouldn't be wrapped up in the letter of the law for either gender and thus only civil unions would. And innomen is probably right that in some cities and states it probably is possible for heterosexuals to get civil unions too, although we'd have to look that up.

Bottom line is it's time for free societies to stop treating homosexuals as second class citizens in the eyes of the law.
 
 Grenache  26 May 2009 10:52
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Homosexuals are not equal they play a different tune to heterosexuals, that is the same way as heterosexuals are not equal to homosexuals.
I think we all must get away from being equal we are all different. The best you can hope for is to be admired for what you are and when you have had enough of this world you go to a better place. God rest my dear brothers soul.
 
 keepmindok  28 May 2009 07:41
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 Keepmindok,

While I do agree that it is a beautiful thing to be different, that should not change how we are equally treated. You can look and behave different, but everyone should have equal rights. In this case, homosexuals and heterosexuals should be treated the same in terms of marriage.
by  Damien
 29 May 2009 15:37
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In America, both hetero and homo couples can get a civil union.

Marriage is a religious thing, btw, it has nothing to do with the state.

So that isn't true.
 
 veggiefry  26 May 2009 21:48
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 Not in the state of Nevada. We tried.
by  tinseldove
 28 May 2009 07:44
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I'm pretty sure you are wrong about that. Straight people can get civil unions as well, they are simply a legal contract, which is all a marriage is in the eyes of the law with a lot of special benefits that present the unfairness that you speak of.
 
 innomen  25 May 2009 20:15
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 Not in the UK they can't, as far as I was aware civil unions were a special alternative for us gay folk in most countries. That to me is completely unfair and they should just extend it to civil marriage and then there would be no argument.
by  kddan
 25 May 2009 20:37
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Personally I think that civil unions ought to be the only aspect that is legally defined. The rules of marriage are really defined by personal choice and agreement. That part has little in my mind to do with the government. The legal ramifications (civil union aspects) are the only part the government should be directly involved with.
 
 finsch  25 May 2009 18:25
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