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Christmas Is Wrong!
The Celebration Of Christmas Has Lost Its Meaning. Christmas Was About Helping Others, Peace And Harmony, But Now It's Just Shopping Like Crazy And Eating And Drinking Too Much. What's Your Opinion?
 theseeker  04 Dec 2007 14:58
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Apart from the nativity, Christmas has lost its appeal and its sparkle, as a time of year to reflect, or get together. It' was family and friends and helping those who would otherwise be alone at that special time of the year. Now it is all commercialized, and people showing off.
 
 keepmindok  29 Jul 2008 13:33
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I am forr Christ-mas Day, but not the way that most of us have celebrated it practically all our lives. Commercially programmed to shop early, laywaway buy, buy, buy, buy, until your are broke, for some. When was the last time you heard a child wake up and say Yea..!!! Its Jesus Christ birthday !!!! No way, it's let's go see what Santa brought me. Whatever month or day he way born on, if we are incorrect in the day so what, I say happy birthday Jesus anyway, because I have heard the date isn't accurate. But, how many gifts did the 2 wise men bring him 1 gift per wise men. So, why are we buying all this expensive stuff and where does the booze come in at Xmas parties, people getting drunk, whatever. What's holy about that? Picture this,.... Your birthday, everybody is celebrating on your birthday, but buying themselves and everybody else gifts, partying, etc., but you have not been acknowledged of this big event which is supposed to be your day. Other than hearing the kids and wives, husbands, etc., say well ..... What did "you" get for Xmas? Sometimes you really have to stop and think of what we all have been doing for so many years. The merchants are happy, we have helped them get rid of a lot of merchandise that they were not able to rid of during the year and now since Thanksgiving and Xmas are upon us, we can help them make their quota or some of it before the fiscal year end for audit and tax purposes.
 
 pac3001  18 Jul 2008 02:46
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I have birthday near Christmas to celebrate my being in this world cannot my extended family have my church service and lunch and cannot the queen make a speech for me? I never actually never got what i needed i thought of things i needed to survive in the summer. There nothing but getting close to each other in the cold months of the year and not for me.
 
 Brake  06 Jul 2008 14:46
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I think that Christmas should be a time where you celebrate Jesus. I mean in the word Christmas...the main word is CHRISTmas. There is a reason why this holiday was named Christmas!
 
 BTDE-Vicky  14 Jun 2008 06:18
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Xmas has nothing whatsoever to do with Jesus Christ. How can you honor the Spirit of Truth by making a lie? See www.heathenholidays.com for some history.
 
 BroWinter  14 Jun 2008 04:21
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I have been anti-Christmas most of my adult life. I consider “the holiday season” to be nothing but mass psychosis, created by cynical marketing forces.
When you factor in that many small businesses rely on Christmas for more than 50 percent of their annual profits, this becomes patently obvious.
Even without bringing in the argument that we no longer use Christmas to recognize Jesus’ birth, Christmas is offensive. The average American spends thousands on useless gifts bought with often already maxxed-out credit cards.
The prime motivator of gift-buying is simple guilt -- if you buy me a gift, I feel obligated to reciprocate. This feeds right into the hands of marketers: You have to prove (or “buy”) love at Christmas with gifts.
It is easy to “just say no” to holiday consumerism. Ask your friends and family to NOT exchange gifts with you -- you’ll be surprised by the response.
 
 chispa  14 Apr 2008 21:40
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 What you say is right, cynical, but right. You could actually participate in Christmas by just making something a little special for the ones you love and showing them in a way you usually don't, how much you love them.... Especially with women, a little almost costless gift can touch them so deeply as to bring them to tears of love. What a wonderful gift. Merry Christmad
by  stever
 23 May 2008 19:50
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If you analyze Christmas, it is blaringly obvious as being a pagan holiday. Do i think Christians should celebrate Christmas - no. I get tired every year of seeing nativity scenes, and "come to church" signs.
I'm a Pagan Minister. It's a Pagan holiday. Tree with stars on top - how much more pagan do you need to get?
The same could be said about easter eggs at easter too lol
 
 Damian  23 Feb 2008 06:04
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 If Christmas is such a Pagan holiday, then what about the millions of people who go to mass every year, or have angels on top of their trees, i must admit I am agnostic, but surely Christams can be a deeply religous time and not just a commercial, consumer-orientated Pagan, heathen, atheist holiday
by  nickwhan
 26 Aug 2008 03:44
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Christmas could be considered wrong in some sense. The 'Christ' has certainly been removed from Christmas, so the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ has almost entirely been lost from the spirit of Christmas.

Christmas seems to have become instead about gluttony. Gluttony of food and drink, gorging on presents and cards and celebrating consumerism more than a happy time in the life of the son of God.

Now, I'm not even a christian, but I do believe that taking over the christian festival period of Christmas with rampant consumerism should surely be wrong.

Surely Christmas is about being with family, showing them that you care, not about preparing lavish and extravagant gifts ,or trying to keep up with the Jones'.

Decorations, trees, food, none of this is in the real spirit of Christmas.

I wouldn't say that Christmas itself was 'wrong', I'm not sure 'wrong' is the right word. Instead, I feel that Christmas has perhaps become an entirely different thing and perhaps we shouldn't even call it Christmas any more, because that is not what it is now.

I don't advocate calling it the 'mass of consumerism festival' either, but I believe that we should use this time to do things with our friends and family. It's great to show someone that you care with a gift, but even greater to show them that you care with your presence (rather than presents) and attention.

The Christmas period contributes massively to strained marital and other types of relationships, it massively increases the amount of debt that people get into. However, our Western economies do really well at Christmas because people spend, spend, spend.

I don't think the wise men knew what they had started when they brought their gifts to the infant Jesus.
 
 Spartan76  13 Dec 2007 14:36
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 I was raised up by Christian parents who followed the traditions like Christmas and I did too. I have always celebrated Christmas until this last one (2007). I stopped because it is a compromising festivity that mixes Christian things with pagan things. The tree was a fertility symbol to Europeans of old. "Jesus" was not born in the winter, according to what I have heard. Why, then, do most celebrate his birthday in December? Because when Christmas was begun, Constantine or some "Christians" from his time replaced the festivity of the Saturnalia with the festivity of "Jesus' " birth. To appease the pagan,Roman world, they did that. I think it was the birthday time of Mithra, as well. A parallel can be seen in the mixing of pagan and Catholic things when the Spanish and Portuguese forced Americans to be Catholics. In Mexico, I believe, there are Aztec remnants in supposedly Catholic traditions. A lot of Jewish things were replaced by pagan things. The name Jesuis probably derived from Zeus. I have not confirmed it yet, but it looks likely since many things that end with "-us" are named so to honor the god. (Hercules, Cyprus, Darius, e.g.)
I am not going to say that Christmas is wrong because someone might think I am against "Jesus." I am against traditions that "nullify the word of God." Easter comes from Ishtar, a fertility goddess, by the way. So much is wrong with Christianity that I may just call myself an adopted Jew instead.
by  Stranger
 14 Feb 2008 14:36
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Certainly, Christmas should not be celebrated at all and it is wrong. In fact, people have neglected the teachings and sermons of Jesus who said in his sermon the following great words, "Ye have heard that it hath been said, `Thou shalt love thy neighbor, and hate thine enemy.' But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despite fully use you, and persecute you; that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: For he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.". But all people have forgotten it, so Christmas is wrong.
 
 death  04 Dec 2007 18:47
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Christmas is not wrong, it has merely lost its meaning. Whereas it used to be a celebration of the birth of Christ, now it is merely an orgy of money-making. One shop near me is already selling Christmas decorations - in JULY!!! I doubt that most of the people who celebrate Christmas actually know what it is they are commemorating.
 
 max1608  29 Jul 2008 13:16
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Why you picking on Christmas? It's always been good to me?
 
 2free  14 Jun 2008 04:24
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Christmas is the celebration of Jesus! Of course it isn't wrong!
 
 gogo303ng  14 Jun 2008 04:01
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 theseeker is properly saying that we have turned christmas from something that celebrates Jesus to something that's just as the end of the year with cheap presents etc. it gotten so tacky
by  kitten
 08 Jul 2008 14:55
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Of course it isn't wrong!! Christmas is a time of year that brings great joy to a lot of people and brings families close together which no one should object to, unless of course you are of another religion because some don't celebrate it which i fully accept!! But also for those of us who disagree that are Christians, remember Jesus Christ was born at this time and that ultimately we celebrate it for his sake!! I personally think this is a great time of a year not only for the religious people but for families.
 
 Emilie  23 May 2008 19:43
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Even though Jesus wasn't born in December Christians celebrate Jesus' birthday on Christmas but Christmas has lost its meaning by saying x-mas taking Christ out of it and now it focuses more on santa(which is stupid)
and presents than the fact of its Jesus' birthday
 
 vgking13  13 May 2008 18:11
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No because we all still celebrate jesus's birth so it hasn't lost its meaning.
 
 Katie92  03 May 2008 21:27
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 Jesus wasn't born in December (if he was born at all, the Bible makes it clear that the story takes place in late spring/early summer). The holiday in December was adopted in the 4th century solely as a way to convert the pagans.

If you're interested in celebrating Jesus' birth, you should be doing it right about now.
by  Cephus
 03 May 2008 22:00
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This is an interesting debate but i don't think there's any one way to argue against Christmas. Even in the clearest most malign emotions toward the holiday that is the very thing Christmas tends to affect? No? I mean... Its a collective sigh of relief... I'd be all for more education on the paganism behind it and the Christian evolution of it (NO PUN INTENDED BUT WOAH!)... But shopping is not Christmas, marketing is not Christmas... I deeply hope those trends are going out the window with bush's presidency... I'm so afraid he will find a way to get a third term... But as far as devoutly denying Christmas... That's so selfish... It's like the greatest time of good feeling throughout the year and your going to go out of your way to tell your friends and family not to include you?
It's too clearly intentional to just be thoughtless, but its like a great process of thought to justify ignoring the simplicity of being with your loved ones and smiling for the kids for "no good reason" other than it is simply christmas... Sense of tradition and what not... One day when santa claus is completely forgotten and jesus is just a barcode embedded on our palms it'll probably be better but the day the world peaceably puts a black jew on their hand for the sake of progress seems pretty distant... Plus there's eggnog
 
 characters  03 May 2008 08:33
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It depends on the person if they want the meaning of Christmas to be lost..
Most of the people celebrate Christmas that is why it is still meaningful
 
 sah01  26 Apr 2008 23:21
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 Except Christians stole Christmas from the pagans as a way to convert the pagans to their religion. The meaning of Christmas? It's sure not what Christians want it to be.
by  Cephus
 26 Apr 2008 23:25
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Actually no b/c its originally to celebrate Jesus' birth and it still is
 
 celva_olva  18 Apr 2008 20:54
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It can be a challenge to make it a wonderful time, but it can be done. If you have a hard time with it, it is best to try and make peace with it, otherwise you are pushing a very large rock up a very steep hill.
 
 innomen  14 Apr 2008 22:02
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In many cases I believe people allow Christmas to be by far too commercial but at the same token I think Christmas is very much what you make it. I think Christmas can be a great time of year to just have fun with your family it does not need to be about shopping or racking up debt to buy the coolest things of the season. I also do not believe one must be religious to take part either. Christmas means something different to every family. I do not see anything wrong with that.
 
 Untoldrose  13 Apr 2008 05:06
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I don’t find any wrong to celebrate Christmas in one’s wish and style. As the years are passing in a fast pace, life is passing in a faster pace too. Today’s people can earn money and thus they can enjoy or celebrate to their own way. Although we could not be able to know the history of the holy Christmas, we can enjoy this day in our way of celebration. I find nothing wrong in it. Modern men work hard and thus they burst out in enjoying whenever they get chance and Christmas is not a different case. They enjoy the day wholeheartedly with their family and friends, eat-drink-party in a overwhelm manner. Because they know there is the next day waiting again back to its general shift from 10 to 5. So what’s wrong in celebrating the day with full of joy and prosperity?
 
 sudipa  23 Feb 2008 00:11
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It’s how you / the people celebrate it. Christmas as well as any other holiday is what you make it. The way to change it would be to teach the correct meanings at home, home is where change will start and only at home can one start to make a real difference.
 
 pappabear  17 Feb 2008 06:51
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Christmas hasn't been even a primarily religious holiday for well over a century now, people who think that it is are living in a fantasy world. It's a secular, far-too-commercial holiday characterized by getting together with family and exchanging gifts.

If you want to add religious elements to it, that's fine, but understand that *YOU* are the one changing Christmas, not society.
 
 Cephus  04 Feb 2008 07:12
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No that's very unsure. I don't know where you come from but in my town it's not about that. We run 3 different drives - food drive books drive and toy donation- at our school every year during this seaso. We have a huge celebration downtown and I doubt that anyone is left home with no1 to talk 2 (considering the fact that its a small town) on Christmas Eve or day. There's always a place for everyone and most people in their place. Christmas hasn't lost it's meaning but SOME people have lost their spirit (not naming any names - theseeker-)
 
 pebbels  25 Jan 2008 02:34
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Christmas is not wrong it’s just different today. It is true that people indulge more in shopping and eating etc then the activities that truly make for Christmas but we still get a chance to spend some time with our family. Family reunions and meeting relatives and neighbors is something everyone needs to do more today as these relationships are suffering due to our busy life routine Christmas provides us with a chance to do that.

The spirit of Christmas puts a smile across the faces of billions and makes them care free for a few days. Something that comes with such pure joys of life can not be wrong!
 
 Twilight  20 Jan 2008 18:51
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Christmas isn't wrong. I think that these days it is far too commercialized, but it isn't wrong, It's a time to be with family, help others in need (I know I do that), and for Christians, to celebrate Jesus. But I don't think it is wrong - if people do think it's wrong, perhaps they aholt celebrate it.
 
 aimee  12 Jan 2008 22:40