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Christians Hate Homosexual Behavior Yet The Majority Of Christians Have Sex Before Marriage.
I think Christians have a lot more issues to address about their own sexual behavior before worrying about what two consenting adults choose to do that makes them happy. The vast majority of Christians breaks the rule of premarital sex. Explain that to your God.
 moreno  18 May 2008 19:18
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I agree
 
 hodver  30 Dec 2008 00:32
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I agree. I grew up in a Christian home for the majority of my life, an i had sex before marriage.. A lot of people who are Christians/Mormons do.... ...and I'm all for same sex marriage too. Love is love.
 
 brllcl5507  08 Dec 2008 23:10
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:-(

You got us by the **** now, yes, moreno.
For once I have nothing at all to say.
 
 Scorpion  19 Aug 2008 00:16
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Few people live by the standards they expect from others. Christians have no monopoly on hypocrisy.
 
 finsch  06 Aug 2008 07:34
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I am a christian but i agree no one sin is greater than the other and i hate how they act like what they do is wrong but its still better than what someone else does. My friends boyfriend will say stop cussing on sunday but if she took her clothes all off hed be ready to jump on her on a sunday and that's fornication cuz their not married and i hate how some Christians feel the need to tell everybody else what to do. Forget that get your life rite first then you can look down on me but no one will ever be perfect so u can never look down on me. And i think there's a difference between offering friendly or helpful advise to someone about their lifestyle and looking down on someone. The advice i don't mind its the looking down i cant stand.
 
 ambercol  19 May 2008 15:15
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 i agree to what you say about Christians telling what other people to do and thing but i know that virginity is hard to control your hormones are hard to control i myself am still a virgin but my sister isn't and she tells me that its hard
by  YoungRuva
 06 Aug 2008 06:18
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I'm casting my vote...you know how I feel.
 
 moreno  19 May 2008 01:13
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Christians sin up a storm, in fact, usually worse than most others and then act like they have a leg to stand on when wagging their moralistic finger. The most fundamentalist Christian you are, for instance, the more likely you are to get divorced. Those that pretend to commit to chastity until marriage actually end up having MORE sex partners outside of marriage.

It's ridiculously hypocritical.
 
 Cephus  18 May 2008 20:50
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 You are claiming to have in infinant knowledge of all Christians. How can you honestly say that about all Christians?
by  codeman
 19 May 2008 02:23
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I don't know most Christians, but I wouldn't be surprised if this is partially true. Of course, I'm not going to be part of them.
 
 Mark  18 May 2008 20:29
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This is sadly quite true and it is a sign of hypocrisy among many Christians. It is clearly both unreasonable and dishonest to enjoy pre-marital sex, which all mainstream churches frown upon, and then express moral outrage over same-sex relationships and homosexuality in general. Those who fail to question this double standard have either not thought the issue through properly, or are simply being remarkably hypocritical about it. Those who engage in premarital sex are not in a position to provide anyone else with unsolicited lessons on what they believe constitutes appropriate sexual behaviour.

Equally unfortunate--and perhaps even more infuriating to their target audience--is when Christians who have engaged in premarital sex tell their openly homosexual friends, neighbours or family members, that God still loves them and has called them to a life of chastity. In this context, chastity refers to celibacy, but it takes a lot of self-confidence to tell someone that their life mission is to remain single. A better solution for all Christians would be to avoid getting bogged down with issues of sexual morality.
 
 mackenzie  18 May 2008 20:13
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 If a Christian is Judging a person and not an action and he's done the SAME that's hypocritical. If he's sinned as in premarital sex he need to repent and stop and He' warned not to juge others ISN"T HE I sure your aware of the Thou shalt not judge...verse. AS far a anyone telling another they have to be chast the rest of their life, that's between them and God, God will tell them. Saying priest are not allowed to marry is totally unscriptual and can't be found in the Bible. Nor did Jesus even set up any church building.....that's not scriptural either..the Christians worshiped "in their homes" making it a personal relationship between them and God. What you see today is man adding and subtracting from the Bible.
by  stever
 18 May 2008 20:29
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Yes. It's clear that Christianity has only survived because of its remarkable flexibility in the minds of the people who claim to practice it. Jesus preached pacifism yet they practice war. The church preaches sexual morality, yet they routinely defy it. The Catholic Church opposes the use of any birth control methods yet the Catholic fertility rate in the US is virtually the same as the non-Catholic one. The churches denounce homosexuality yet homosexuals still belong to them, making up their own personal variation of Christianity as they go.
 
 Hidell  18 May 2008 19:41
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Lol, good point.

Kinda hypocritical, isn't it?
 
 FoxFire  18 May 2008 19:36
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 Kinda...it's the worse.
by  ambercol
 19 May 2008 15:19
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What does homosexuality and pre-marital sex have anything to do with each other?

Christians don't HATE homos; they just don't AGREE with their lifestyle. I'm Christian and I have a bisexual friend, and while I don't hate her I don't agree with it at all and would rather not know anything she's doing. I don't know any Christians that have had pre-marital sex...and those who have aren't real Christians and so it's technically wrong to call them Christian.
 
 bookworm3  30 Nov 2008 19:56
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Yeah, those two things are almost related! Brilliant.

How's this...
Liberals hate freedom and yet some liberals watch football on Sundays!

Heathens!
 
 Cons_Lies  23 Aug 2008 02:41
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Ok...it will never end. Over and over and over and over. Christians. Anyone, (including thoughtful people on this site) who uses the word christianity without defining it, is being absurd.

Most of the time, we assume the definition falls somewhere amongst religions which claim to follow Christ.

Hidell actually skimmed over the real issue while making his usual idiotic blanket reference.

In truth, doesn't matter if you believe in any of it or not, Christianity would describe a practice based upon the teachings of Christ. Again, Hidell points this out.

The teachings of Christ have NOTHING to do with hatred. Period. End of debate. Christians do not hate homosexual behaviour. Christians don't hate Satan himself.

As for the second half of the topic, Christians are as bad as anyone. Period. If they weren't, they wouldn't need to follow Jesus. They would think they could survive on their own. There are many people on this site who feel they can survive on their own or don't need to survive. Believe it or not, these people are just as bad as the Christians. But being just as bad is simply being the same.

Anyway, it's a great point in regards to people who claim to follow Christ while pointing their fingers at other people. If it was put in this fashion I would be in total agreeance.
 
 justsumguy  13 Aug 2008 00:49
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 Preach it, brother!
by  bookworm3
 30 Nov 2008 19:52
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YOUNG RUVA..................


I am not a christian or anything,and NOT ALL ATHEIST JUDGE CHRISTIANS AND JUST BY SAYING THAT. But I am engaged to a christian,and he doesn't mind the fact that I am a bisexual.And I have waited for the one that I love,and the same with him, and I know that I will be with him until the end of time, and the Christians that I do know,I HAVE NOT I DO NOT NOW AND NOR WILL EVER JUDGE THEM JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE CHRISTIAN! SERIOUSLY YOU NEED TO TAKE A GOOD HARD LOOK AT WHAT YOU JUST SAID ABOUT US ATHEIST!!!!
 
 Dancer91  12 Aug 2008 23:57
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Well i don't get it you atheist you go telling us we r judgemental and we look down on people when you are the ones being judgemental you are the ones who look down on Christians i am a young christian and i know many Christians who have had sex before marriage i think everyone in my family nearly has but most of them repent and most of them are young like my sister she has i went to a youth speakers thing yesterday and they were talking about being successfully single and the woman speaking admitted she hadn't done right but she repented and you will be amazed how pure and happy she looked :) i don't agree with homosexuality but i do not really care and so do my christian friends and family WE DONT CARE we have far more things to worry about than your stupidity really i mean how childish is this post please stop being so childish and judgemental i do not believe that we should judge because in the bible it says that you should not judge other people because you have no rights let god judge the other people' stop trying to fool yourself that we care we don't!!
 
 YoungRuva  06 Aug 2008 06:16
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Maybe you should just say "the Christians that I know" not judging them, because most of the real Christians I know are virgins or waited for marriage. Do you not know that even a whore or a thief can go to heaven if she/he repents, because we are SAVED by the grace of God, NOT by our own works, should any man boast. Maybe you should have a pastor explain these things to you. If I slept with the football team on Monday, and then heard the gospel on Friday and TRULY repented for my actions, turned away from my sin and honestly vowed in my heart never to do it again and follow Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour, if I died on Saturday, I would go to Heaven. That is why salvation is a precious GIFT, anyone can obtain it, you cannot earn it, because ultimately we do not deserve it. Think about it, when a precious new baby is born, you just do not pick it up, you wash your hands first, why? Because the baby is so clean and pure and you know your hands are dirty, how much more dirty will you feel in the presence of a pure and clean, RIGHTEOUS God, you gotta get right first by cleansing your sins and your heart before you can come into his presence.
 
 belladeNYC  19 Jul 2008 05:51
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 If they are true Christians then they should have no problem with homosexuality because they would "judge not lest they be judged".
by  boy2girl31
 28 Jul 2008 08:39
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I'm not so sure about the MOST part. Yes a lot of "Christians" do have sex outside of marriage. But this does not mean they OUGHT to do so. If murder is wrong, you kill someone, and you make some excuse that I cant say anything because I told a lie one time, how in any way does that effect the reality of your murder being wrong? They both are wrong and I despise both. We shouldn't expect perfection in a fallen world, but we should expect people to try and aim for it anyway.
 
 davidsuggs  19 Jul 2008 05:09
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First off, not every Christian has premarital sex. Secondly, just because someone else sins doesn't mean you get to, that's like saying since someone got murdered I should be able to rob a bank, it just doesn't work.
 
 eisenhower  19 May 2008 19:19
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Everyone is a hypocrite in some way. No one is perfect. In fact atheist say Christians are intolerant, but do nothing but belittle them all the time (don't deny it. It's all over this site). Isn't that in it's self intolerant?

Also you're making the presupposition that all Christians have premarital sex. That is incorrect. That's like saying all atheists are adulterers.

Christians have a belief system. Do we always follow that belief system? No. We are not perfect. Have you ever broke the speed limit? Have you ever cheated on a test? No one is perfect.
 
 codeman  19 May 2008 02:04
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 "Everyone is a hypocrite in some way". So you are claiming to have a finite knowledge of all people?

But the point is understood, see how we all do it, nothing wrong with it.
by  StBalders
 19 May 2008 15:23
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Maybe i live in a dream world, but i don't think that the majority of Christians care so much about homosexual behavior. Sure the fundys do, but the vast majority of those i know don't really care. I don't live in a part of the country where there are so many fundamentalist Christians, and those that are here are not very outspoken. My partner and i live in our house in a town that is overwhelmingly Catholic, pretty diverse in general, and have never had anything but a friendly and welcoming experience. Just last night i was speaking with a priest and he was encouraging us to go to church. He said that he wants more gay people to attend.

The latter part of your statement is certainly true.

I think that is where the biggest gripe is with fundys by non fundys. It is in their sanctimonious speech and their hypocritical behavior.
 
 innomen  18 May 2008 21:21
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 I think that there is a major divide on the issue of homosexuality and same sex unions/marriage between fundamentalists and mainstream, traditional Christian denominations. The Catholic parish I attend is starting up a group for the borough's gay and lesbian population. I also have a colleague I work with in a charitable foundation who has been in a committed same-sex relationship for the past three decades. He is an active member of his local Anglican parish and continues to hold leadership positions in his church. As an interesting aside, the Anglican Church of Canada has recently found itself divided on the issue of whether it should perform same sex marriages. While he cast a ballot in opposition to the redefinition of marriage, his 96 year old mother voted in favour of it, arguing that it's going to happen anyway sooner or later, so we might as well get it over with now. Most mainstream Christians are probably just as sensible.
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