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Children Should Be Allowed To Divorce Their Parents
Do you think children should be allowed to legally divorce their parents? If yes, at what age and for what reasons? If no, what reasons?
 seoems369  30 Jan 2008 03:27
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They can it is called Emancipation in the US and the child can sue for his/her own rights as an individual with the help from a lawyer it is rare and difficult but it can happen.
 
 fairie  04 Nov 2008 02:43
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Yes. At any age for any reason. Its called freedom.
 
 ur_wrong  18 Sep 2008 23:29
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Unfortunately a very complex "debate." So many variables.... Children need to be heard, PERIOD. If a child (under 18) is so distressed as to think of taking this desperate route, that child and situation needs evaluation. Presumably something better would be in place?
 
 fusezhun  07 Mar 2008 19:31
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Emansipation is legal, and rightly so,however to 'divorce' ones parents is a huge decision to make. I feel if the the child is at danger in the home with the parent(s) or it the lifstyle is so poor that the child is un well then yes of course but emansipation for lesser resons should be discoureged
 
 muin13  21 Feb 2008 22:39
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I agree with the person under me, 17 is a good age. If they do not like their parents like at all they are old enough to make their own decisions. I don't think that just not liking their parents in general is a good enough reason, they should have really good reason like oral abuse or physical abuse or drugs even. Of course this will cause a big problem in society and in their family, but it is the child's decision.
 
 spongebob  09 Feb 2008 00:28
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17+ at 17 your old enough to fend for yourself and all that. Anything below that might cause problems and put the child in a poor mental and physical state. You can get a job and drive a car at 16 (earliest for most places) so i think its best to give them a year to get there stuff together and let them leave if they want to. I would find it very hard to do so but I'm young and that may change.
 
 pebbels  01 Feb 2008 01:46
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I think that children should be allowed to divorce their parents. However, I do not think it should be done just because the child hates his parents. If the parents are unfit, abusive, and unable to support or take care of the child then the child should be allowed to divorce them. It is not fair to force an innocent child to live with unfit or unworthy parents. There are plenty of people out there who want children and who will care for them and support them, as they should be. So, I agree. If a child can prove his parents to be unfit, abusive, or unsupportive, then he should be able to leave them for a better family. There is nothing wrong with wanting a better life for yourself.
 
 Professor  30 Jan 2008 20:13
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Children should be permitted to separate from their parents at any age if the parent has proven incapable of raising that child properly. However, an adult's assistance should be provided to that child, and the adult's input should be counted if the child is under the age of 16. The child should only be able to separate from their parent in a situation that involves danger to the child. However, if proven to be a successful parent, then the parent should regain custody of the child once more, despite the child's opinions, feelings, and thoughts.
 
 TyWhyHiTy  30 Jan 2008 03:32
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No their is too much divorce going on as it is ... People should learn to live and love each other..;-)
 
 keepmindok  29 Oct 2008 11:17
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We you joking when you came up with this coz it made me laugh lol. I agree but only in a jokey way and only till i needed some money lol
 
 mutani  16 Oct 2008 17:49
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I am a kid, and I personally know that in adolescence you make hasty decision's if you think that kid's will make the right decision your naive.
 
 rykh1570  27 Sep 2008 03:27
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Kids need discipline. Parents are to love, encourage and nurture their children. Making divorce available to children would be the final straw on a weak and fractured society. We TOLERATE TOO MUCH and our moral fiber as a whole is nearly dead as it is.
 
 caliwhi  27 Sep 2008 02:53
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 let me add to my own comment. Its a given that if a child is being neglected or abused he has the right to be heard and taken out of harms way. Thats not what the core of this debate is about!!!!!!!
by  caliwhi
 27 Sep 2008 02:57
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No. If a child is in a bad situation then they should go to the authorities and let them sort it out. If they need to be taken from their parents then the state will do it. It happens all the time. But just because a kid wants to go to the big party next week and says he wants to divorce his parents....thats absurd.
 
 created  08 Sep 2008 02:22
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What!? There would be divorced families everywhere. It's bad enough that adults can't work out their differences and make it work, let's let kids make serious legal decisions everytime they get mad or grounded. Can you think of the mess that would cause! Like everything in life, there are certain situations where kids deserve better parents and a better life, but that's what DFS is for.
 
 Dgroves  02 Sep 2008 05:07
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A child or teen is not mature enough to handle such a big decision. A child may "divorce" their parents as a result of a something silly, and they would regret it. By the time your old enough to make the right choice, you don't have to. Most likely you'll have moved out by then.
 
 Maggie1  28 Jul 2008 04:06
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No. It is a very hard job to raise a kid. It is most ungrateful to smear all that hard work by such flagrant ingratitude by child divorcing the parent.

Parents who do a really good job of caring for that child should not be punished for doing good.
 
 Scorpion  18 Jul 2008 00:10
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If they don't feel right with the parent tell the other parent and hopefully they will listen but its not the children place to pick who you date if they help you out with the child then that's fine but its really none of the child's freakin business
 
 tay0921  10 Jun 2008 22:23
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Absolutely not. Children have no right to divorce their parents. Divorce is a matter between a husband and a wife, if it must be done.
 
 Mark  30 Apr 2008 19:58
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Children should never be allowed to divorce their parents, irrespective of any age. The bond between a child and his/her parents is so pristine and eternal that children should never be allowed to sever this bond under any circumstance. Again, Maladjustment problems may take critical shapes and children may not feel comfortable with their parents, especially when they are in their adolescent stage. Such problems may be solved by some psychological guidance and counseling and other techniques. But, if in such situations, children find their way out by divorcing their parents; such an unhealthy and damaging practice will shatter the basic foundation of the human society. All parents are real well wishers of their children. There may be a temporary phase of turmoil between them, but it is absurd to consider divorce as its solution. Even the very idea of introducing such a custom is dirty and malicious.
 
 sudipa  17 Apr 2008 15:25
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No, I think it's ridiculous.
 
 baconbust  15 Feb 2008 19:49
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 It's not so ridiculous if your father was a rapist or a murder or just extremely abusive would it?
by  Azmatan
 14 Apr 2008 02:31
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If a child/teen gets mad at their parents, they might "divorce" them and then regret it extremely later.
 
 Melody  13 Feb 2008 01:36
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No what if there parents are in love your gonna stop that and make the kid unhappy in the long run.
 
 hiddensc  04 Feb 2008 16:53
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 I'm thinking this poster means divorcing the parents from the child, not the parents from each other.
by  1andonly
 09 Feb 2008 19:19
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Allowing children to divorce their parents at random would create a social and logistic nightmare for society and public institutions. It also raises the question of what society should do with these children, since they must be provided with a legal guardian. If they were permitted to divorce their parents, would society then have to place them in foster care, or in an orphanage? I'm not sure that these kids would like this any better and if they don't, do they get to "divorce" their foster parents or group home as well? Hidell is absolutely correct when he points out that what makes children different from adults, is that they have no experience or skills in making major decisions that greatly impact the rest of their life. Additionally, many adolescents tend to have a rebellious streak and as such, their motive to "divorce" their parents may be based on this as well.

Children at any age have enough power in their hands to take action if their parents are abusive or do not provide for them to the best of their ability. The local social services department is usually just a call away and all schools employ a counsellor, who is happy to sit down and listen to any problems that a student may be dealing with.
 
 mackenzie  30 Jan 2008 14:03
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Children, if by that you mean people who are not adults, are not mature enough to make such momentous decisions about their relationships. Of course, the child should be able to register a complaint about abusive treatment by the parents and, in extreme cases where the complaint is found to be justified, the appropriate authorities should be able to take the child out of its parents' custody.

Once the children reach maturity, is there any further point in them being able to divorce their parents? In theory, this should be possible if the relationship with the parents could impose any practical burden on their adult children, for example if children could be made liable for their parents's debts. However, off the top of my head, I can't think of any way in which a parental relationship could impose any involuntary burden on a child. That being the case, I see no point in permitting adult children to divorce their parents.
 
 Hidell  30 Jan 2008 13:09
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