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I for a very long time have known I was gay. Some girls I think are beautiful but I'm not attracted
to them or have any urge towards them whatsoever. I've always found guys attractive, I've had a few
girls try very very hard to try and convert me but they've failed and will continue to, besides I
love my boyfriend. My parents took me to priest to try and convert me, at the time I just told them
it worked to get them off my back.
As for the people who say they were gay but not any more, possibly they weren't gay in the first
place. And those that say they've found God and are now happily married to some one of the opposite
sex are not being entirely honest with themselves. They are decieving themselves and probably going
through a lot of pain inside. It will end in a nasty divorce and if there are children involved it
will be even worst. |
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Having never been attracted to females myself, I have no experience with homosexuality first
hand.
I can tell you that I read in a magazine that actress Anne Heche, who co-starred in that one movie
about volcano in California with Tommy Lee Jones in the 1990's,
don't recall the title of the movie,
anyway, this article in this magazine, I think it was In Style or Vogue magazine, anyway, this
article said that she had been gay, but met this one guy, married him, had his baby, and she said
she never had gay problems again.
Sounds like a conversion to me....but that's just one person.
Who knows about others? |
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You are born to like one or the other, maybe both sexes, it is not a choice,
i have always been bisexual, and i chose to embrace it, from a young age i knew i like girls,
luckily my parents have no problem with whatever sex i chose to be with, i have dated both males and
females, and find them both as attractive as each other, and have no will over which sex I would
rather have a relationship with.
I cannot change who i am.
And the gay community is no worse than the straight one,
they are very supportive people, |
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It isn't a choice. The only thing that's chosen is who you date and whether or not you come out of
the closet (the last one isn't always a choice, either. Some people are outed by others)
Ex-gay therapies have been proven to be ineffective and to only cause depression and a higher risk
of suicide. |
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It strikes me that homosexuals have little choice in the way they feel. Sure they can be in the
closet or go back in the closet but they can never change what they naturally feel. I am convinced
of this because so many gay people have suffered in the past because of their sexual preference and
have desperately wanted to be what society considered normal. It is a fight they could never win.
Why deliberately choose a life of persecution. |
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Homosexuality can no more be reversed than heterosexuality can, no more than having a certain hair
color can be genetically altered. Homosexuality is pre-programmed into our genes, you are born that
way. Certainly you have the ability to alter the way you act, you can force yourself to have
heterosexual sex even if you are not attracted to the opposite sex, but internally, you're still
gay, just like you're still a redhead no matter what color you dye your hair. |
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I suppose that one can make the argument that our sexual orientation may not be that strongly
ingrained and that the divide between heterosexuality and homosexuality may, in part, be an
artificial human construct. I have heard some on the left of the political spectrum articulate this
argument when discussing gender and sexuality. Although I am not sure if I fully buy it myself, I do
agree that gender and sexuality may be both biological and social constructs. If we take this
argument further, we could go on to claim that heterosexuals may have homosexual tendencies--which
are perhaps repressed by perceived societal norms--while homosexuals may have occasional
heterosexual inclinations as well. In some cultures, including in Turkish society, bisexuality is
more acceptable and prevalent than elsewhere.
Despite all of this, I am always doubtful of dubious claims about how homosexuals can be "healed"
and made straight. I suspect that many ex-gays are probably just as attracted to the same sex as
they were before, the only difference is that they also become willing to engage in a romantic,
sexual relationship with someone of the opposite gender. |
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No offence but I personally don't really like the wording as it says 'reversed' implying there is
some sort of problem with it. I don't think it can, apparently people have but there is speculation
and so personally I agree that it is simply going back in the closet and why should they have to
change anyway? |
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I’ve never heard of anyone returning to heterosexuality after being homosexual either.
Not that it hasn't happened, just that I don't have any knowledge of it happening. |
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No indeedy- and if you think so you're smoking crill -zack !
Can you reverse being a virgin? A lot of us would like to, and many times over.
Since part of it deals with a physical as-pect
no pun intended the answer is no. |
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Being straight is much easier than being gay. The gay community isn't always a kind place. Being
gay in a straight society isn't all that great either sometimes. I can see the attraction of
pretending to be straight and living a "normal" life. I think that is probably what goes on with
"ex-gays". That and some bottom that they hit in their lives. |
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13 May 2008 21:53
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