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Boys Judge A Girl By Their Looks , And Not Their BRAIN !!
Come on .. Guys usually fall for the hottest girl and not for the smartest one .
 rere  06 Jun 2008 05:20
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I'm smart and no one likes me :( i only look pretty with my hair down and my make up on but i'm not putting make up on everyday and my hair is frizzy, so it ends up looking like a bush.
 
 kitten  17 Dec 2008 20:54
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Of course they do. This is because they are DUMB.

But don't worry. There are smart guys who go for the smart girls.

This goes vice versa as well.
 
 bookworm3  03 Dec 2008 02:25
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IN MY OPINION,
smart guys choose hot girls..
Those who aren't choose the smart girls..
BUT NOT ALL THE TIME.
Correct me if I'm wrong.
 
 sah01  29 Sep 2008 23:25
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There's a girl in my year and she could whisper anything and then every boy in the year would start drooling, they say that she is hot and she acts all sexy when we are in our class and then the teachers blame someone else
 
 coolgirl  29 Sep 2008 19:55
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So true, i am so smart and funny and talented, but I'm no Mariah Carey and for that i don't get dates, its a really shame
 
 jjgirl14  03 Sep 2008 23:42
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Quite true but many people are much more sensitive, than medallion man, and want to find someone of substance.
 
 keepmindok  27 Aug 2008 13:38
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 ain't THAT the truth!

;-) LOL.
by  Scorpion
 29 Sep 2008 20:29
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I agree but i disagree so I'm in a sticky one...
Tons of guys do that but I'm the most different guy any woman could ever meet...I'm too sensitive for my own good
 
 keetonman  11 Aug 2008 12:50
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Yes.
I know THE brattiest girl ever and all the guy fall for her cause shes "Supposielvely" cute? She is the meanest dumbest girl ever.
 
 hb_26  28 Jul 2008 00:44
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Most guys in high school all they care about is how you look. How popular you are... If you have money or not.... One day these guys get out of that stage and actually go for the girls who have brains... Who are in the relationship that means a lot to them.... But i agree guys do base there life around the good looking ones... If they actually got to know the girl inside then they would think that the girl who could be the ugliest girl in the world be the hottest girl around and be so in love and want the same relationship that she would want! Its crazy how guy work these days!
 
 sexyjesse  10 Jun 2008 16:57
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 i hate dumb girls...well i don't hate them i just wish
that they would do the same as me...as in not care bout looks....just personality
by  keetonman
 11 Aug 2008 12:52
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Initially this is usually true. Beauty is like the HOOK, it gets the guy to look and become interested. So he will talk to you.
Your personality is usually the LINE, if they like that you laugh a lot or something then they will stick around even longer and become even more interested.
BUT...
The SINKER is if the girl is smart. If this guy is actually a good guy, then he will like her even more because she is smart.
It is very true that you can't win a guy based solely on intelligence, but this (as I have just stated) is usually how it goes.
 
 insanity  07 Jun 2008 20:06
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 I know it!

LOL

you are totally right!

Guys love a truly intelligent woman.
It is the mental-stimulation thing going on for him.
Sex is 95% in the mind, you know.

But, he will MARRY a rather dumb woman, he can feel secure that no other guy will want her and she won't leave him for a wittier chap sometime down the road.....Guys are SO INSECURE!!!!

The only time guys are not insecure? Is when the gal is in love with him, and then he abuses that emotion she feels for him, toys with her,until she gets really pissed off and leaves him, and then? he all crying and wants her back......blah blah blah.
You know how men are SO CONTRADICTORY.
Men only want that which they cannot have. The unattainable.

:-(

A guy will only watn you bad if you do not want him that bad back.
be totally in love with him? And you are completely screwed :-(

The only way is to figure out how not not fall that much in love......just keep from feeling it deeply.....where the love only goes down so far......so when he leaves you it will not be a gushing, gaping would......only a small trickle of blood, a scratch maybe: something that it will be possible to heal from in time, as time goes by, a smaller scar, not a missing emotional-limb or vital organ type of loss.....where you lost that one loved one and you feel like you lost your entire soul. Like you have lost your life when you lost this chap.

Better to build higher thicker walls so you wont be THAT DEVASTATED by the next chap.

carefully controlled emotional-output. One jujube at a time ;-)
by  Scorpion
 29 Sep 2008 20:07
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I totally agree. One of my friends is like that. They see a girl and break their mind about her without knowing a single fact about her. Whether she is rude, mean, gross....
 
 skinnyjean  07 Jun 2008 01:04
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Boys totally judge girls by their looks. In my experience guys only come to me cuz i wear wats in style now-a-days and cuz of wat they SEE on the out side but my friend isn't more about clothes and looks but she's more of keeping it simple and she is about brain and no guy (but the nerdly kind) ever would and have looked at her(and asked her out) it's sad the way boys are want it comes to the smart girls and not the normal and cute ones.
 
 Roxxi5  06 Jun 2008 23:48
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Beauty and brains are both largely inherited characteristics. For me personality and how well you apply what you have are much more important than what you started with. Of course I’m speaking purely for myself. As for ‘boys’ in general I’d say it might be time to try men instead. Of course that means you need to be a woman instead of a girl.
 
 finsch  06 Jun 2008 17:38
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Both are taken into consideration. I'd say I like looks over intelligence but I definitely don't ignore intelligence completely.

You said 'brain' too. You're either born with a good brain or a bad brain. Even if we did judge girls based on their brains it's still judging and some people are still left out because they were born stupid. Boo hoo go cry it's not fair.

I'm for it because I agree with what I think you meant and I think it's totally fair and natural that girls are judged based on their looks.
 
 JohnShier  06 Jun 2008 05:36
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 most guys in high school all they care about is how you look. how popular you are... if you have money or not.... one day these guys get out of that stage and actually go for the girls who have brains... who are in the relationship that means a lot to them.... but i agree guys do base there life around the good looking ones... if they actually got to know the girl inside then they would think that the girl who could be the ugliest girl in the world be the hottest girl around and be so in love and want the same relationship that she would want! its crazy how guy work these days!
by  sexyjesse
 10 Jun 2008 16:52
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Girls do too haha
 
 Carlton  29 Sep 2008 20:52
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Who cares about looks and brains. I go for the girls with the money.
 
 verum  27 Aug 2008 13:28
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 then don't look at me, Verum ;-)
by  Scorpion
 29 Sep 2008 19:58
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Guys go for women they're attracted to. Guys are attracted to as full of a package as their mind requires them to be attracted to. Put that in your potpourri and smell it.
 
 characters  27 Aug 2008 13:07
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Not in my experience
 
 Damian  26 Jul 2008 11:10
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You can't tell me with a straight face that girls don't do the same.
 
 maugatar  01 Jul 2008 23:15
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 hey, most girls do, but i've dated a guy that litteraly had a tail, like his hair was all short except for like a 2x2 cm square of hair,
by  jjgirl14
 03 Sep 2008 23:44
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This may be true when you are young but as you get older you learn that pretty fades but smart and witty are always there (baring some mental damage).
 
 boy2girl31  30 Jun 2008 21:56
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Looks of course play an initial part, but you can normally judge them as soon as they open their mouths. Which is much better in my opinion.
 
 Snipex  18 Jun 2008 23:30
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I don't. There's a pretty girl in one of my classes but i hate her because shes a stereotypical idiot.
 
 Smito  14 Jun 2008 17:12
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I'm beautiful ,smart and i have i good personality also and i can be a blonde at times but smart
 
 jennifer  06 Jun 2008 16:47
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 were are talknig bout the whole not just one.... you might be one but you have to realize its not always bout one person its bout the whole!
by  sexyjesse
 10 Jun 2008 16:59
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I beg to differ... There are thousands of cute girls in my area but I always search for the ones I can talk with. "Beautiful but dumb" is definitely not my type.
Oh ! If the girl is brainy AND beautiful, well... I will be pleased, of course !
 
 Garamond  06 Jun 2008 15:08
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