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Being Fat Doesn't Mean You're Ugly
A lot of big girls and guys associate fat with being ugly
 debator  23 Apr 2008 01:01
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Some fat people look cute. Some hideous, but never judge by appearance :DThere is no difference, we're all the same, whether fat, skinny, moderate, ugly or beautiful.
 
 Abc123Man  04 Jun 2013 14:20
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I try to make sure i stay bigger because being skinnier make me look like I am an elf! So keeping curvy is the best thing for me, i still am very healthy but i prefer looking bigger (and i get a lot more positive male attention that way!)
 
 nemomonopo  22 Apr 2012 23:25
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Attractiveness is relative. I believe there is beauty within everyone, some are just yet to find those who can see it.
 
 evangela  22 Apr 2012 20:28
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True. Being fat doesn't mean you're ugly. That is the worst assumption to make. That is typically stereotyping people and that is really wrong and rude!
 
 iholland95  17 Jan 2012 15:49
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"Fat" people are really nice, well, most of the time. They are just like everyone else.
 
 Boodoll  07 Jul 2010 01:29
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Nice people get fat, its a known fact, mean stupid [people tern down nana's homemade cake ;D and its not called being fat its called being normal and not annerexic ;D RESPECT TO THE NORMS!!
 
 NomNomNom  05 May 2010 16:29
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 WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
by  Satanic
 05 May 2010 16:30
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I think fat people, especially girls are pretty! I mean the skinny girls know they are stunning and everything, but being overweight makes your face be filled out! And having a decent chest of course ;]
 
 Satanic  05 May 2010 16:26
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True. Beauty is something ine you not how u look.someone who is fat would be risking their lives but they are not ugly.it doesnt matter if ur pum chubby or skinny if ur not healthy
 
 eve94  01 May 2010 16:20
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People come in all shapes and sizes. I would say that someone who is morbidly obese is likely not attractive to many, but to some, they are. I also would hope that people could realize that some people, including underweight people, are that way because of mental illness, a thyroid or other medical issue that causes weight gain or because of an eating disorder, which would actually fall under the category of mental illness. I realize that some skinny people are naturally that way. The same is true of some overweight people. The term fat is misleading. Some consider a person to be fat when they merely need to lose 15-20 pounds, while others find someone who overweight by a lot more than 20 pounds to be attractive. It also depends on how one carries their weight. One who carries the extra weight in their upper body, with a large waistline is at risk for diabetes. One who is more pear shaped with a smaller waistline and larger hips and legs is less likely to be at risk of the health concerns that being overweight can cause. I was, before my hysterectomy, a size 0-2 (depending on the cut of the clothing). I am now a size 7-9, but prefer my look now because I have some curves and do not look sickly. I could benefit from toning and perhaps a 15 pound weight loss, but I'm confident and like myself. I think that trait is something that most of the guys I meet and date find more attractive than the excess 15 pounds.
 
 my2cents2u  26 Apr 2009 19:13
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At the end of the day beauty is something which is more of an opinions but i do think that just because someone is fat it doesn't mean you are ugly you can be fat and pretty and fat and ugly just as you can be thin and ugly or thin and pretty
 
 Eeyore  26 Apr 2009 18:59
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Maybe yes, but being fat shows that you don't care enough about your own health. Being fat is not a disease, it's caused by overeating and/or eating junk food, and by not exercising. Those are choices, not a medical condition.

If someone wants to hang around with overweight people, I've got no problem with that. I even know some. But I'm not going to try having a relationship with a woman who doesn't share the same concern for her own health that I have for mine.

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I see that dumbguy is showing his stupidity in public again.

To 2¢: If you're suggesting that 60% of adults in the US have an "eating disorder", you're severely misinformed. And if you're suggesting that the target of my comment was people have glandular problems, you're dishonest.

I am not talking about people who have no choice. I am talking about people who choose to eat garbage and do squat instead of doing squats. Don't pretend the issue is anything else.

Www.thisiswhyyourefat.com
 
 K9  19 Feb 2009 19:28
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 lol...your ignorance is FAT.
by  justsumguy
 21 Mar 2009 00:34
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No. But so-called 'fat' people feel ugly because of low self-esteem. I believe that this stems mostly from societal views that thin is beautiful.
 
 SlyOne  11 Feb 2009 16:16
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Yeah, I agree, I'm not supermodel skinny, but I'm better then supermodel pretty!
 
 peaceout  29 Dec 2008 01:32
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 amen to that!!
by  peaceluver
 07 Oct 2009 03:36
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Of course not it means you are fat. But that doesn't matter because fat is also unattractive. But the two are not mutually exclusive.
 
 eelmonkey  26 Oct 2008 10:07
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It varies. I’m a big guy. Tall, lots of muscle, and a thick layer of fat. I’m very physical and can do things as a matter of course that most people can’t even consider doing. Some people see the fat and are turned off some people see the capabilities and are attracted. It doesn’t really matter, I like my body. I like being able to do things. I certainly wouldn’t want to trade it for one of those skinny little androgynous bodies that seem to be popular these days. Those things look completely useless.
 
 finsch  19 Sep 2008 14:50
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 Isle sea your Androgyness and RAZE you 50 quid ;-)
by  ItsLogical
 26 Oct 2008 04:54
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I agree it is rude
 
 steph  05 Aug 2008 01:52
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I agree I'm big and I'm tired of this shallow world.
 
 keetonman  27 Jul 2008 06:36
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 me 2
by  peaceluver
 07 Oct 2009 03:38
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It doesn't.
But it depend how fat you are for you to be attractive or not.
But then again, there's people who are even attractive to obese people
 
 lq04  15 Jul 2008 09:59
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I agree.. Fat people are just as beautiful as normal weight people... And sum1 sed the ugly ones r the anorexic ones... Umm.. There's a difference between being fat through pure laziness...and being fat from having an illness... And there's a difference between being skinny.. Coz that's the way you are ... And being anorexic which is actually a serious illness and it doesn't make you ugly.... Everyone is beautiful...whether that's physically or beautiful on the inside... Coz whats on the inside counts the most.. There's no such thing as ugly in my eyes... There's something stunning about everyone!
 
 Louisee--x  06 Jul 2008 18:14
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True true, so true and fat is good b/c they are bullied less and they can jump someone if bullied
 
 ice_fire  03 Jun 2008 02:56
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Yes! I am telling you, I am not fat but I am not a BArbie either and many people make fun of me and it is not ok! I am getting really weight obsessed even though I am not overweight from the doctors point if view!
 
 lavatis  08 May 2008 13:49
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I totally agree - I know many beautiful people who are overweight. Can it be controlled? Absolutely. But beauty comes from within. You can be skinny and have the worst attitude/personality and be ugly too.
 
 tsdary  29 Apr 2008 03:08
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 Thank you!
by  lavatis
 08 May 2008 13:49
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Fluffy people are excellent cuddles,
and when the fit hit the shan, I would want
a heavy weight to have my back in a fist
fight! But most importantly, when you are in a tough spot, themovies or in for a long
wait...who always has a snack with them or
can track down a sanck machine, fat is wonderful
 
 Bacchus  29 Apr 2008 02:16
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There are a lot of beautiful ppl that are overweight.
 
 celva_olva  29 Apr 2008 02:06
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 Over weight = unhealthy and unhealthy whether too thin or too fat is not beautiful unhealthy is never beautiful.
by  boy2girl31
 01 Jul 2008 06:00
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
 
 cortisol  27 Apr 2008 08:58
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Uhuh..it is like "black is beauty"
fat are still talented and still have their beauty.
 
 sah01  26 Apr 2008 22:31
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 what does black is beauty have to do with it. Race and weight are two different things.
by  missamour
 20 Mar 2009 17:40
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"fat" people are nice and be a beautiful! The ugly ones are the anerexic ones!
 
 melisiwa  23 Apr 2008 18:12
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 i agree
by  peaceluver
 07 Oct 2009 03:35
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Some people are so beautiful when they are "obese" and really it doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, but how you act, how nice you are and attitudes. Because you could be beautiful,and have the snobbiest attitude ever.
 
 Potterpal7  23 Apr 2008 18:08
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Being a bag of fat is ugly.
 
 Gloria  27 May 2013 10:30
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 Well...that's offensive, you know. There are many fat people with awesome personalities or very good looking faces. Maybe you are anorexic and consider yourself beautiful(and congrats to that) but not everyone is perfect and many people like fat people. But anyway, you can have your own opinion.
by  Abc123Man
 04 Jun 2013 14:18
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Some boys or girls are hot when they are fat
 
 Shayla453  16 Apr 2009 02:10
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 i think your on the wrong side
by  ricko362
 15 Dec 2009 00:37
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No.

I think fat is flabby. There is nothing noble about a flabby body.
 
 sylverwyld  06 Nov 2008 01:41
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 I see you disagree with Scorpion, have you two ever met before?
by  Homestar
 21 Mar 2009 00:24
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I think its not cool
 
 fssf  17 Jul 2008 00:59
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As a person of not weight my whole life i can see both sides! When I was pregnant i got HUGE and people treated me like trash! I know from both sides how bad both fat and thin are hated.

I think its sad either way to trash people for whatever SIZE they are!

It is Hatred either way. Love people as much as you can stand to.
 
 Scorpion  04 Jul 2008 22:48
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If you are fat you are either too lazy or stupid to take care of yourself (baring a thyroid problem) when stupid and lazy are beautiful I'll eat my pumps. As for being big boned I've never seen a fat skeleton.
 
 boy2girl31  01 Jul 2008 05:55
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 That is not entirely true. you can be fat but be the opposite of lazy. big boned means your bones are bigger and you have more muscles. my foreign exchange student was big boned.
by  celva_olva
 01 Jul 2008 14:41
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If you are fat AND beautiful, you will gain a lot by dieting !
If you are only fat, and plain looking : Dieting will help too !
Fat is not good for your physical and mental health !
 
 Garamond  08 May 2008 13:39
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To consider not taking care of your body beautiful is ignorant. Fat people are not beautiful and their is no such thing as being big boned.
 
 conor  30 Apr 2008 23:26
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 What about boney people, or boney people with bloated bellys' from starvation, how unattractive are they.
by  Bacchus
 30 Apr 2008 23:33
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Naturally people see fat as ugly.
But there are good reasons for this.
Fat, subconsciously, makes us think of ill health. Fat symbolizes lack of energy and stamina.
.... There are reasons people think fat is ugly.

People associate these things with super skinny people also.
 
 Damian  29 Apr 2008 02:14
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 Actually in some cultures, fat is shown as a sign of wealth as it implies that person has enough money to grow fat.
by  Intuition
 18 May 2008 12:33
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Some people just go to over board with food i mean i love food in everything but like kids that are like 170 pounds that is just bad.
 
 viking435  23 Apr 2008 18:14
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 just because it isn't good to be over weight doesnt make them ugly!
by  melisiwa
 26 Apr 2008 21:12
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