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Being Bisexual And Being Gay Are The Same Thing
Because a person is bi, they like the same sex...that still makes the person gay
 not_emo16  07 Jul 2008 20:12
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Personally I think all sexuality is the same thing, each of us with our own individual variations on a theme. No two people are interested in exactly the same things. So either there are 7 billion sexualities in which case the term ceases to have any function or they are all just slightly different expressions of the same set of desires. As a wise old lesbian once said to me, "it ain't a fence with people standing on one side or the other or stuck in the middle. It's a spectrum. Everything else is just people trying to fit themselves into a prelabled box."
 
 finsch  22 Oct 2008 01:34
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Yes.

It is just someone's way of standing up to Society and acting out the rebellion, using a sexual vehicle to do so, to say this:

"you men and women are eternally at war and hate each other, and I don't want to play the game, so I opt-out: By becoming a dissident = gay/lesbian." And so they just give up and quit playing altogether in the battle of the sexes; but Bi-Sexual is just another way of saying it, their hate of the war between the sexes is greater and deeper and fight both sides, as opposed to the gays or the lesbians who just hate one gender and not the other one. Bi-Sexuals hate both men and women equally.

This is one possible theory. Theory meaning unproven concept, so do not freak out now. Theory only.
But think about it: It is one possibility.
 
 ItsLogical  21 Oct 2008 00:08
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I totally agree with this statement. I am a gay man and have never considered myself straight even though I had sex with women when I was younger. I knew I was gay. It's all a cover up to try to be "normal". I feel that people who label themselves as "bi" are people who are afraid to admit to themselves and others that they are in fact gay.
 
 blondjac76  08 Jul 2008 05:17
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 If someone is homosexual they like people of the same sex. Ergo men like men, women like women.
If someone is bisexual they like people of both sexes. Ergo men like men and women, women like women and men.
by  ScottyRAWR
 14 Aug 2008 06:05
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If you are bi- that means you date both because each are special in its on way
 
 kaylei  06 Dec 2008 02:45
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Bisexuality is within the same realm, that is to say under the same category, but it is still different. Gay is likeing only the same sex; bisexual is to "get the best of both worlds," so to speak.
 
 bookworm3  06 Dec 2008 02:35
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Bi-sexual and gay are definitely 2 different things gay people like to have sex with people of the same sex while bi-sexuals like to have sex with everyone. As for blondjac76's comment that " I feel that people who label themselves as "bi" are people who are afraid to admit to themselves and others that they are in fact gay." all I can say is that I am bi-sexual and I am not afraid to admit to anything I like to have sex with both men and women and I will not be bullied into choosing 1 gender or the other simply to fit into someone else's idea of what is right.
 
 boy2girl31  27 Jul 2008 05:49
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I don't agree. Being bisexual and being gay are two different things in my opinion. If you are gay then you like other people of the same sex. If you are bisexual then you like both sexes. Simple as that.
 
 louise23  08 Jul 2008 17:15
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No actually they both mean 2 different things. They are similar though.
 
 celva_olva  08 Jul 2008 15:50
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I would define a bisexual person as anyone in their adult lives who finds the company of a man or a women in a sexual tense equally pleasing.
 
 Q  08 Jul 2008 08:05
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I assume that gay and bi are different, you like both sexes if you are bi.
 
 mastermov  08 Jul 2008 02:35
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Think of it in terms of "necessary" and "sufficient". In order to be "Bi" it is necessary to have gay intercourse. But if all you have is gay intercourse then that in itself is not sufficient to be labelled "Bi". So it's not the same thing.

What's the harm in having 3 separate categories of gay, bi, and straight anyway?
 
 Grenache  07 Jul 2008 22:00
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