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I totally agree, i do it to my girl all the time, she is an inferior person the cooker and frying
pan can be her friends. After all their feet are smaller so that they can get closer to the cooker |
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Sometimes they just need telling, y'know. Like she keeps on with the blah blah blah. So she gets a
little slap, she'll be alright. |
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That's social abuse and wrong. If a man ever told me i wasn't aloud to have friends or see the
friend i have i would leave him in a heartbeat and never look back. No one has the right to tell you
who you can and cannot talk to, or spend time with. |
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If I ever saw a guy treating a woman like that I'd go over and give him a good smack. Its a form of
abuse if a man is trying to control a woman or anyone for that matter like that. |
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Like finsch said he is insecure and capable of becoming physically controlling.
This Guy want his cake and eat it. |
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I for one disagree because well I'm a very sensitive guy and i put people i love before me or in a
dangerous situation me before her |
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Look if that’s what he's telling you then he’s definitely insecure, probably cheating on you,
and potentially physically abusive in the right circumstance. The only reason you are still there is
because you are codependent by nature. Your tendency is towards low self esteem and a deadly fear of
being alone. You have to leave now, and don’t look back. You need to get your own job and get your
own place. Later when you get comfortable being by yourself (and only when you are comfortable with
yourself) and have been standing on your own two feet for a while, you can start thinking about
dating an adult member of the human race. |
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That is a very misogynistic way to think and i dare my boyfriend or husband to even think about
telling me that. Relationships are about love, trust, and equality. Above all. I wouldn't give a
ridiculous ultimatum like that. I don't believe what brand of stupid we are dealing with here. |
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No one should put up with that
no one deserves to be in an abusive relationship it's unhealthy. |
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I'm proff....it's not healthy, i hate it. |
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I think that if a girl gets to sit at home and take care of the kids while her husband works, she
has it easy. It's the way things were meant to be. A wife who is a stay-at-home mom and a wife who
is secluded and isolated from the world are two entirely different things. |
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Husbands or boyfriends that demand this need booted to the curb. There is no reason for someone to
tell you what you are allowed to do or not to do. They are not your parents and need to chill out.
If someone demanded that of me, I would tell them exactly where to go and continue to do as I
pleased. If they couldn't get passed it, then maybe they need to find someone else to try and
control. |
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Hello! Have you never read an Ann Landers column? Any man who insists on isolating his wife is a
potential abuser.
Social isolation is the No. 1 thing that men must do to gain physical, let alone emotional, power
over their partners. By denying her access to outside support and perspective on her situation, he
is creating a tiny universe in which he is God and the sole arbiter of her fate.
Women are made to feel guilty if they do not slavishly devote themselves to these petty tyrants’
every need. This leads to the “I deserved it” mentality when he finally physically abuses her --
and he will, every time.
The other phase of this super-control is extreme jealousy, of other men and even women friends.
Potential abusers convince the victim that they are proving their love by being jealous, when the
reality is, they are exercising absolute control. |
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No, they aren't. That type of relationship is wrong. Everyone needs their freedom, such as the
freedom to socialise with other people and get out and about. Any relationship that stops anyone
from doing any of these things should not continue. |
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I totally agree.
Women have their own choice to do just about anything. They can be stupid and be locked up, or they
can get it in gear and they can either get out of the relationship, or give this guy a good talking
to. |
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They shouldn't they cant tell you what you can or cant do |
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No, it's called an abusive relationship and you get out of it. No one can be forced to stay in the
house, if a woman chooses to do so, it's her own choice.
People need to grow backbones. |
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10 Apr 2008 19:20
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