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Boys Are Obsessed With Stuck Up, Pretty, Popular Girls
Hypocritical.... Mean... Girls... Do guys like them?
 skinnyjean  18 May 2008 21:20
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Its half true.......but their is this girl at my school who is the BIGGEST brat but hides it when a boy walks by. And all the boys drool over her and shes pretty and that's all they care about and she uses acts of evil to make the girls scared and deal with her. I just wish boys would see the girl deep down that is really her.
 
 hb_26  28 Jul 2008 00:28
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 anyone can be manipulative: which is the REAL topic you are discussing here. Not beauty. But personality.
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 18:54
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Yes. Males are goal oriented. That is why football is so popular......the Goal......the Unattainable or hard to get.

The less you want and need a man, the more he needs your attention and has to have it. It is the perverseness or contrariness of human nature. Cannot explain exactly, but have seen observed it in action.

One more thing? Most people would put me in this category and have done so for my whole life, so I would know what it is about and what it feels like to be the ONE JUDGED HARSHLY AND WITHOUT BASIS IN REALITY.

1. A quiet, reserved person who is very intelligent and beautiful?
Is regarded as "Stuck Up". Misperception by others.
2.Turn men and women down who want and ask to date you?
Is regarded as "Bit*h". Again, misperception by users.
3.Live your life in a wholesome, clean, moral, high-standards?
Is regarded as "Cold:Unfeeling:Machine:Holier-Than-Thou".
Again, misperception.

Bottom line?

Quit caring what slackers and unworthy persons have to say about you, and live up to what you value in life as important and let those of a lesser-mortals-mentality of using and abusing go some other route to emotionally terrorize someone who is not attracted nor interested in them.
Just live and let live, basically, a good way to put it.
And do not judge others you have never even met much less KNOW as a person through time and experience.
 
 Scorpion  14 Jul 2008 18:42
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The problem is that teenage boys are hormone driven and look for the pretty faces and round bodies, as well as being told by society and popular "culture" that it is what they should be looking for.

It's not until later (and some never do) that males figure out having female *friends* is the best way to get close to other females. When you're not judging by sex or attraction, you learn what's worthwhile in a female friend *and* in other females.

It's yet another reason sex education should be mandatory and people should stop stigmatizing masturbation. Boys should "get it out of their system" so they can start thinking with the proper head.
 
 K9  05 Jun 2008 21:14
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People would rather go out with a fit girl with a bad personalty then a ugly girl with a good personalty.
 
 higack  25 May 2008 22:44
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Yea, they are

Sorry, yes, I can't defend that on a broad scale. I try not to make generalizations, so this was simply based on personal experience and written in anger. I stand corrected.
 
 Bangles  18 May 2008 21:24
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 Defend that.
by  Pure
 18 May 2008 21:56
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Boys are obsessed with all girls, lol lol.
 
 Rapunzel  14 Dec 2008 03:52
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 except from me :(
by  kitten
 17 Dec 2008 20:35
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Not all guys are this way. I'm not popular or pretty, and I don't like to think that I'm stuck up, and I've been asked out before.

But there do seem to be a lot that go for the pretty girls, aren't there?
 
 bookworm3  19 Nov 2008 02:49
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If they're stuck up, their beauty is diminished.
 
 Stranger  08 Oct 2008 18:52
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 the only thing that is diminished is your PERCEPTIONS.
you have no way of knowing what that girl is like unless you know her.
You are just surmising. and judging without facts.

Do not do this, unless you want this done to you.

The Golden Rule is fair, in ANY country;-)
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 18:53
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I just go for the Pretty, Popular ones
 
 Carlton  29 Sep 2008 18:20
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 popular is for sheeples...I disagree on the basis you look to other people to tell you who to like. you have a mind of your own at all??

;-)

;-)
by  Scorpion
 29 Sep 2008 18:22
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I tend to go for girls who i can talk to popular pretty stuck up or otherwise although i tend to avoid the stuck up ones
 
 maugatar  20 Aug 2008 12:28
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 "stuck up" is a perception, with perhaps no real, and actual basis in reality.
An opinion is not, a fact.
You could not know, unless you knew....;-)
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 18:57
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I was never obsessed with the pretty girls I wanted to be one of them but found that unpopular girls accepted me better.
 
 boy2girl31  02 Jul 2008 03:00
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 "accepted me better" indicates insecurity.
Beauty is not really the topic here in this debate: it seems that it is inn fact, personality.
And perception issues.

you THINK that some people do not like you, but you do not KNOW that those people do not like you.....
and yet you will never KNOW either way, unless you ASK.;-)
by  Scorpion
 08 Oct 2008 19:00
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Some pretty girls are not stuck up. Just b/c you are popular doesn't mean that you are stuck up. Guys might seem to be dating popular girls while in school but most times they end up with someone they really care for by the end of high school. Not all popular people have a bad personality.
 
 LME  05 Jun 2008 21:00
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I agree with Maggie1... Ive had a couple guys fall in love with me, and I'm nowhere near pretty and stuck up and popular
 
 not_emo16  26 May 2008 21:55
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Don't be ridiculous guys like girls that are not not stuck up why would you go out with a stuck up girl ?
 
 Poshboy171  21 May 2008 16:07
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I think its just a certain age group whose shallow and not really mature yet and boys who are the same way. I mean if hes stuck up and popular forget him let him have a stuck up popular girl they r perfect for each other. My boyfriend is in the middle ground and so am i and i just think it takes one to know one ya know.
 
 ambercol  19 May 2008 15:11
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I'm not. I highly dislike those girls that dress themselves up slutty so that it gets guys attention only for them to make fun of them for it.
 
 Pure  18 May 2008 21:56
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Since I am not a guy, I don't know how to vote for this. No kid should be "obsessed" over any thing or any body.

If they are, all I have to say is they have a lot to learn.

Let me ask... In my day, girls could be both pretty and popular but not mean or stuck-up.
Does that occur in this generation at all?
 
 momof3  18 May 2008 21:41
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I believe that guys like to 'look' at girls who are pretty, but fall in love with girls who have a great personality.
 
 Maggie1  18 May 2008 21:26
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They are often the "prettiest", but some can find beauty in things that are deeper than skin.
 
 Snipex  18 May 2008 21:22
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