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After Reaching A Mature Age, Most People Drop Their Religion And Substitute A Spiritual Idea That Makes More Sense To Them.
After reaching the age of 16, I became much more responsible and mature which led me to question many of the beliefs I formally believed in. Religion was the most significant issue I had come to question. I use to be Catholic, but remembering every thing about my Religion I thought perhaps maybe it came to us humans, not through fact and reality, but through ways we can explain superstition, create hope, and control the mass population. It really makes more sense. Has that happened to anyone else?
 verum  06 Aug 2008 17:00
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Thank you for saying this, Verum. I agree highly with your statement.

Religion, as I believe, serves it's best purpose in children. It gives them a framework of morals to build their life around....Usually. But it does have it flaws. It makes things I now accept seem sinful to Christians (E.X: Premarital sex). It can terribly cloud judgment in younger ones.

To my point, yes, you are right, Verum. Eventually, people must learn to drop comforting fairy tales, and step into the cold reality of the world as it is.
 
 Jaz  16 Oct 2008 21:22
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Yeah I feel I eventually did that. For along time I actually thought I was a good little Christian, followed the rules and thought the Bible was perfect. Then I decided to read a bit more of it than rely on what I'd been told and taught and found myself disagreeing with it a lot of it and turned more to science and set my own moral law book. After time I distanced myself from religion and now am definetly an atheist. I believe the mind and conscious does go on but not in a biblical or religious sense.
 
 kddan  29 Sep 2008 12:38
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That's what I did. My primary school forced us to sing hymns and prayer. As soon as I left for secondary school, I dropped everything even remotely religious and now am athiest
 
 Tromanator  29 Sep 2008 11:58
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16 is not mature. But I agree, when children grow older they can question the beliefs given to them by their parents.
 
 Snipex  12 Sep 2008 17:15
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I like it. I think I too fall into this category. In fact I think most normal humans do.
 
 Cons_Lies  07 Aug 2008 04:23
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I don't know if they do. But they definitely should.
 
 sander  06 Aug 2008 23:43
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In general that's true.

What I find most interesting is what retirement age people do. Two of the older women in my life became ultra religious believers, much more so than in their first 50 years of life, yet the dogma they believe in now is more their own carefully cherry picked set of beliefs from the Bible than the views being pushed by their church group. It's as if as they get closer to death they greatly fear what will happen to them soon yet they really don't trust their own church got the answer completely right. Instead they rush to try to find their own path in the few years they have left.
 
 Grenache  06 Aug 2008 20:39
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I was raised a strict Roman Catholic where, until I was nearly 10, the Mass was said in Latin and women wore head-covers. We were well versed in hell-fire and damnation and I was positive I would burn in Hell for all eternity for all of my alleged transgressions.
I am now 46 and have a firm belief in a loving, forgiving God who knows my heart and mind and does not judge me but guides me to my best life in service of Him.
Simplistic? Maybe. Life-saving? You bet!
 
 Xelda  06 Aug 2008 19:13
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 Amen to that, brother
by  verum
 06 Aug 2008 19:22
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I think you might be overstating it a bit. I think you could say many people begin to examine their beliefs at a certain age, but that’s quibbling. I know I did, when I reached a certain age. What I had been taught just didn't jibe with me. My grandmother never did forgive me. I refused to keep going to Catholic Church at the age of 12 because I was thinking about my beliefs. Well when I refused to go it caused a bit of a stampede. Turns out my aunt and two uncles were only going because they were afraid of grandma.
 
 finsch  06 Aug 2008 19:01
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What the question really means is that people pick and choose the bits and pieces of religion that suit them and throw away all those little parts that don't fit with there lifestyle choices. Faith isn't a designer suit that you can tailor to your own tastes and dislikes. You either choose to believe in what you were brought up to believe or you don't. I think its rich that people want it all ways.
 
 Shira  10 Aug 2008 16:00
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 If what you said were true, then NONE of the disciples would have followed Jesus. They made a radical change from the dogmatic beliefs of the Jews, that Jesus came to enlighten.
"The truth will set you free" The truth is something that must be sought, and is not in a dogma....
But the verse "the law kept me, til God's love won me" explains this process of questioning your belief, and then having something better. We all go through, having our faith tested, but if one really wants to know truth, it wont be hidden.
Verum.....your at the time of the prodigal son, he wanted to strike out on his own, and this is natural. If you learned to love God at all, love will bring you home some day....not to dogma, but to a loving relationship.
And there's many on this site, that will NEVER understand this. Bon voyage
by  paladen
 12 Sep 2008 17:38
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