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A Spouse That Hates Your Family, Also Hates You.
When you are in a marriage and your spouse hates your family, he/she is also saying he/she hates you. You should never give up your family for your spouse. Blood is always thicker than water.
 Flash  30 May 2008 00:28
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I believe this to be true, even though it sucks. Husbands/ wives should always be considerate of the other spouses family and their opinions. There is a way to go about it and a way not to. It really isn't that hard to be nice even when you do not "like"someone. Some people's personalities just clash and they cannot sort it out. However, if the spouse is just being petty, that is a whole other ballgame. I really don't think that that spouse hates their spouse though. It is just something that is unavoidable. You always hear stories about the "in-laws" because it applies a lot of the time. The spouses are married because they do love one another, that doesn't mean love the family too.
 
 curious  30 May 2008 00:33
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Well not really but i would be angry if my husband hated my family i would SLAP HIM because he may be family but he ain't blood and blood is very important
 
 YoungRuva  06 Aug 2008 06:06
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If the spouse got married to you and hate you they are either weakwilled or they don't hate you.
 
 Smito  14 Jun 2008 17:15
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If one truly loves their mate they will not abandon them in a time of desperation, even if this is a case of disliking the in-laws. As you said, blood is thicker than water, if this is true than your family would be able to see the situation you are in and address the issue accordingly. Of course it would be a tough thing on them but they, as your family, should be able to appreciate the relationship you share with your spouse and respect that you must stick behind your spouse.
 
 THE  30 May 2008 16:07
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It's not automatic. "Gee I hate Bobby's kid. Well, I want Bobby, so I'll have to put up with the kid."
 
 OzzieMan  30 May 2008 05:52
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No, but this is an awful situation to be in. If you are truly "mated", then your partner must always take precedent over your family. Unless you are with someone who is a jerk, then you need to move on.
 
 innomen  30 May 2008 00:34
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